Relationship crazyness?

Question

i have been dating a guy for two years and a couple months now..and i love him more then anything in the world.but through our relationship he has cheated n me a number of times.i forgave him because i loe him alot but the incidents really weakened my opion of it. i dont hole our relationship as highly as i used to and i have not trust in him.

i have sort of a crush on another guys that makes me feel wonderful,i fantasize about being with him and flirt with him over the internet and he says he likes me to .i have no idea what to do about this.My boyfriend i know would not like this but its likei dont really care because he hurt me SO much and ive never done anything like that.

i still want to talk to this boy ,i want to hang out with him and maybe mess around a bit ...but i still love my boyfriend and dont really want to do that to him disspite what he has done to me.

and advice would help?

what should i do?

Answer 1

THEN DO IT WOMAN!!!  HE CHEATED ON YOU, A NUMBER OF TIMES!!! A MAN LIKE THAT DOESNT DESERVE YOUR LOVE, and second you are alrready cheating on your current bf because you flirt and you and the new guy admitted you both like eachother, I THINK YOU ARE LOOKING FOR A PUSH TO GO AHEAD... Look..  think about it, You know what you want, dont worry about others, and worry about yourself...  once you consider the best for you, the better off youll be.  Then you can worry about others again.  I cant believe women like this...  I feel bad for the nice guys indeed.. they always finish last... but this punk.. HAHHAAHHAHAAHHA gets a girl who still clings on him.....

THINK ABOUT IT!!! DO IT!!!!

now gimme my ten points.

Answer 2

I suggest to break up with your boyfriend. my mom was cheated on, and once a cheater, always a cheater. He's cheated on you multiple times, it's obvious that he doesn't love you back. He's just using you! If a guy loves a woman, he'll pay attention to them, not go off with any other people he can find. If someone makes you feel good, they're the ones you should be with. You may love that other boy, but if someone doesn't love you back, it's a lopsided relationship, and you're going to end up being able to forgive him for anything.