Relationship crisis need help now?!?

Question

my girlfriend and i have been together for almost a year now. there's these two girls one is bisexual and the other is a L*****n and i'm friends with both of them. my girlfriend has a reason to dislike one but has no reason to dislike the other but does. she doesn't want me talking to the latter one because she assumes she will hit on me. Is this fair at all? she's never done anything to really make us think she likes me. and also my girlfriend used to enjoy partying and now she doesn't. i never partied my whole life and i'm 18 now and i want to party. i wanted to go to this club with some friends but she doesn't want me to go without her. BUT SHE DOESN'T WANT TO GO. is any of this just?

Answer 1

The way she is being is not quite fair but it's the way some females are.  You just need to decide if partying is more important than the gf.

Answer 2

It sounds like your gf is very insecure, and that's not something you can remedy... When she starts directing you on what to do you lose yourself. Is that really what you want? You will NOT be happy, and neither will she. You will both surely lose respect for each other. I've been on both sides. When I was on her side I had to grin and bare it. my partner never did anything wrong and slowly I had to come to terms with it being my problem! I'll tell you what-- I am so much stronger for having gone through that. You have to be true to you. YOU ARE ALL YOU HAVE!! Good luck. If you need help, I'm all ears.

Answer 3

Tell her that to be in a relationship is like a contract saying you try to get along with your partners friends. Tell her that she can stay home and that you are going to have a good time with your freinds.