Relationship drama :[?

Question

sean is like my best guy friend and i like him A LOT and we're always flirting and holding hands in class. most ppl think we're a couple becuz we're always 2gether and stuff. but then there's paul who i've dating on and off for over a year and i lost my virgiinity to him so that makes me feel like i need to be with him even more becasue i never wanted to do it with more ten one guy but i sed that i didnt wanna do it anymore for a while and we havent or about two monthes and he respects that but i still feel like it wrong and he's really good to me but we seem to fight about a lot of stuff and he's been getting on my nerves lately. everyone says i should go out with sean but i also love paul and don't want to hurt him.also sean knows how i feel n paul sed hel comit suiicide with out me and i know he will. he goes to councler by the way but i dont know. hes also improved alot but sometimes will just flip also i think pauls hotter but i dont let looks get to me. im just sooo confused and have been for like four monthr now!! also i feel as thoguh i love them both&& paull sed he would kik seans @$$ if i ever left him n then got with sean n i know he would because he has anger issues and sean please help doesnt wanna have that drama and paul just bought me a promise ring please help and thank you in advanced

Answer 1

Sounds like you have a situation on your hands there. Personally, I think that you should take some time to yourself and date neither of them. I mean, love doesn't mean that you flip from one person to another and you shouldn't be with someone just because you lost your virginity to them.

Take some time and just explore who you are, find out what you really want. But you can't do that if you're tied up in both of them.  

Answer 2

wow...never though there is this kind of drama....

I think u should know who u need the most...

Make sure that the guys u pick is the one who can make u happy and always be with u in every conditions n situations....

hope u pick the right guy...(^_^)