Relationship going down hill

Question

My s/o of 3 years comes home every night at midnite or 1am and he's either high or intoxicated. I couldn't take anymore of it, so I told him that he had to leave. When he drinks he gets really mean and disrespectful. I suspect he's cheating as well because he never really use to stay out past 10 or 11pm I never know where he because his phone is off...I love him, but I don't know what to do. We no longer live together because of this, but I really miss him and not his ways.

Answer 1

Is he a significant other or are you committed to him in marriage?

There is a difference there and if he is just a s/o then your choices are a bit easier, or should be to make.

Answer 2

If that's the way he treats u then he does not deserve your love. Find another relationship that's more meaningful. U can do it.

Answer 3

Would you please use your head. You obviously can't stand him coming home at midnight yet you want him around still. It's going to be the same thing if he comes back in your life. Go find a new boyfriend. The bad outweighs the good sometimes and you have to get over it.