Relationship is on the fritz??

Question

I have been seeing this girl since the middle of May, I am 27 and she is 26 and has a 5 year old girl. When things started off it was hot and heavy for about 2 months. Recently things have fizzled out I got in trouble at work and her home was almost foreclosed on and the relationship has suffered greatly to the point where we don't hardly see each other which is not by my choice. We did have lunch last week and even took a shower together. Yesterday she started a new job and I asked her if she wanted to go out to dinner to celebrate and she text-ed me back saying that she was sorry and that she was trying to figure some stuff out. I responded with ok I understand. When she got off she text-ed me saying she was on the way home and was going to see how her daughter felt and that she would call me. Of course she didn't call me and I eventually went to bed. Should I just lay low for a while and wait for her to contact me or is there something else I should be doing?

Answer 1

well it wouldn't cause any harm to call her to see how things are with her, and let her know she was on your mind.

at the same time, you are a young guy.. do you really want to get that seriously involved with her when she already has a child? depends on what you want though. Good luck.

Answer 2

well, maybe she was too stressed or too busy to remember.. and since she has a 5 year old kid, it sets a priority to her as a mom... maybe it is wrong to commit to a relationship with you if she fails to comply with her time with you, but it's always best to talk to her and tell her what you really feel about your relationship...

Answer 3

Well it sound like u need to lay low for awhile. She need some time to get things together. I dont mean not talk to her, but try to lay back and when things get better she will call you. Then on the other hand she might trying to end it between the both of you but not sure how to do it. To me its going to lead to both of you guys going yall own ways, cause when your in a relationship with some one you need that person to ease your mind off of things and thats what you is trying to do and she not letting you. Yes ill lay off for a while made she will call you and if she dont then move on.