Relationship issue Will this last!

Question

I've been with my boyfriend for 1 year now. I have a 2 1/2 year old son from a previous guy who cheated on me.Me and my boyfriend had a baby together who is 9 wks old now.I was a little jealous here and there when we met but the longer we been together the worse it is getting. Its really out of hand. I don't know how to control my jealousy. I have been on the nuva ring for 1 month if that matters. My boyfriend doesn't like how i am cause I'm so worried and always question who he use to like in the past. I hate feeling like this but its so hard to control. I think he looks at other women. I feel real emotional about everything and he says things like im an emotional wreck. What can i do to save this realationship? I really love him and i dont wanna ruin things. I dont want to be without him. Please help. What should i do about my jealousy and insecurity!

Answer 1

This is so typical of someone who just had a baby. Dont feel bad! we all get a little jealous, especially when we dont feel that we look our best or when we see someone else whos got it going on. You just have to control yourself and try not to nag him to much. if you nag him too much, he'll leave, and then you'll really feel like c**p. My best advice is, as soon as you get the okay from the doc. Start working out , losing any extra weight you might have gained, pu on make up, just basically do things to take your mind off of what hes doin all the time and making sure you still feel and look good.

Answer 2

I understand how you feel because after being cheated on in the past makes you insecure but your boyfriend shouldn't have to pay for it. Has he given you reason not to trust him? If not you gotta get over your insecurities because your gonna push him away because your so worried about his past and hanging over his shoulder worried about what he doing or who he talking to. He's with you now so if he hasn't given you reason to think he is cheating then you have to trust him. Good luck! Hope everything works out for you.