Relationship issue? any advise ?

Question

My girlfriend is 23 of age and so am i she just recently had a baby. since then things are getting worse even when she wasnt pregnat. she thinks i look at other women when i dont she gets so angry cause i want to hang out with a buddie that i normally dont hang with. shes very jealous for no reason i been with her for only a year and things are stressfull for me i cant deal with her i even tryed getting help from a marrige counselor even tho im not married she gets mad over things that should not happen and im going crazy she has a kid from a prevoius and this doesnt seem fair to me help is not working what should i do next somebody

Answer 1

She is insecure probably because she knows the stories about the boyfriends leaving once they have the kid. She is worried you won't like her as much because she has a kid now, and she is showing it by lashing out and being accusative towards you. Also, her body and hormones are probably a little out of balance still now that she's just had the kid, so there's another possibility. If you  think that she is the woman you want to spend the rest of your life with, please start talking about getting married. You might need to talk to her though about any problems she might have with you right now. Be sensitive and just listen, don't get defensive. Be understanding and talk it out. If she's yelling, be silent, don't yell back. Best of wishes, God bless!