Relationship problem with my man?

Question

my man had throught that i had call this other girl phone and he had also thought that i was trying 2 tell her about him and things like that now the other gurl dont know that he is cheatin on her with me but he had told me that he do want 2 work things out with me and him and not wit her at all cause he had call me when she was gone and out of da car talkin bout someone keeps on calling her phone and i though it was me and then she had got on his phone talkin 2 me like she knew who i was 2 him and then she was like someone keeps on calling her and she thinks that it was me but it wasnt me and now my man is talkin bout that he believe her over me?

Answer 1

You've asked the same questions for so many times. Listen, YOU need to wake up!!! Your "man" is cheating on you, he is using you, he's lying to you, and he blames everything on you. I know it hurts because you love him so much and you're tired of gettin hurt. But if he cheats on you with another girl, he is not trustful, so why did you believe him when he said "he wants to work things out with you." He had said this many times, he's not working anything out, HE is Lying to you! Your relationship with this man is making your life miserable. Sometimes, you might think you know someone, but you really don't. Even though I don't know you, I can tell that your man is an a*****e, how can you not see that? I think you're smart enough to see what's going on here with your relationship, it's not working. Let's just face it, he is cheating on you and not worth your time. You're wasting your future holding on to this man. ITS NOT LOVE! Life is unfair and sometimes things don't work how we want it to be. Let go of this man, and move on. Please do it for your own good!!

Answer 2

move on he not worth it but its easier said than done  

Answer 3

hon, you sound young, but that's not a good enough excuse to start off being someones fool.

    First of all, he's not "YOUR" man, if he is with someone else, he is there by choice, not force.

    When a man, "WANTS" to leave he does and it only takes as long as a sentance, period included.

     He wants to be with her, or he wouldn't be, your just someone he toys with on the side. He takes her out in public, is proud to show her off and introduce her as his girl, pays her way, takes her to dinner/movies and enjoys being with her, can you say the same about how he treats you ??

      If he has to call when she is not there, then he is lying, what that actually says about you, is you are something to be hidden and ashamed of, someone he does not want to be seen in public with. Someone he will take as far as the back seat of the car and no more, that is not love or even like, that's as bad as a "cheap hooker",  at least she gets paid and is realistic about the situation.

    "What goes around, comes around", the oldest and most original version says "an eye for an eye".

     Therefor, the treachory you practice, has attracted the same to you.

      Just because you don't know someone, does not give you the right, to hurt or take from them, what does not rightfully belong to you, so do not expect any good to come of it.

      Never go out with anyone, who says, they have a gf/wife, are going "to" leave the gf/wife.  And never believe anyone who says the don't love the person "they choose" to be with, unless you can call their home phone at anytime, drop in to visit at their home or can't show up when you need them most of the time.

       You are the one being played, these guys can spot "needy naive" girls and have "little" if any respect for them and their feelings. You are a "dime a dozen" or cheaper.

       Show a little common sense respect and dignity for yourself and don't be flattered by older guys who like you, because "like" is for pizza, sunnydays, new styles and friends, not for relationships. And love is for those who are old enough to respect themselves and others, those who know the difference between being used and being true, those who can tell a one night stand, from a lifetime plan.

       You on the otherhand, will be thrown aways like last weeks garbage and the emotional ties he had for it, as soon as he tires of you.

       Older guys, rarely want little girls and i'm sure you think 13-15 has gained you knowledge/experienced enough to handle men and relationships, if it were true you would have had the sense to do better at school and it shows.

      Contrary to your beliefs the big "F__K", will not get you though life, nor is it making love.

      Men today are looking for women who understand hard work, women with an education, because it takes 2 good paychecks to support a family and the comforts that go with it and hard work is what a long lasting relationship takes.

      Loose the fantasy and fairly tales, your too old!

      Loose the "man" and stick with your age group "at school" cause that's where your mind should be if you want a happy life and a "good man".

      Right now, your headed for a life as a single mom on welfare, few men want that, so your choices will go from bad to worse. And the assistance you'll get  may keep the dog well cared for but not 2ppl.

Answer 4

i keep seeing you posting these same Q's about your so called man, if he was "YOUR MAN", he wouldn't be with someone else, so u need to get a reality check, Get out of that so called relationship, if u could call it that, and move on, he is no good for u, and u deserve better than some punk that just want to play you luv!