Relationship problems!!!

Question

My boyfriend and I have been dating for over 5 months. My parents think I'm spending too much time with him and less time studying for college. Even though I'm 19, they've limited the amount of time that I get to see him. It's causing us to fight a lot and I don't know what to do about it. Also, his parents think that I don't like them because I don't ever come over there anymore. That's not the case, they just seemed to not want me around because they never tried to get to know me. But they say that I never talk to them about anything. I don't know what to do, cause my boyfriend and I love each other very much, and want to make this work. Help???

Answer 1

You will have plenty of time for each other if the love is real don't mess your education up.

Answer 2

If your boyfriend and you have a good relationship, even though you have restrictions about seeing him, i don't see where his parents fit into the equation.  The relationship is between you and your boyfriend, not you and his parents... you've only been seeing each other a matter of months, and you have the rest of your life to get to know his family...

Your boyfriend really needs to understand that what your parents say, goes right now -- while you are living with them.  I sure wish i could change their minds, but i can't... if your college work is suffering, this is probably the reason.  I'm not there, so i can't say for certain.

And if your boyfriend can be mature and understanding of your situation, then the fights should not occur.