Relationship question for girls....?

Question

my girlfriend and i are very much in love. when we talk about her ex's she said that they mean nothing to her and she hasnt talked to any of them since. when i got with her i stole her from her previous bf, but the relationship wasnt going well at all. However, every once in a while i go on facebook and see that she comments on some of her ex's pioctures... i dont care that she does but why lie and say she never contacts them.i really dont see wut she gets out of doing it and why she cant tell me? girls, if u do the same thing.. WHY?

Answer 1

She isnt comfortable with telling you about them (yet?) Normally when people do that it is a sign of lacking trust...

I wonder why she would do something so public after lying?

Maybe you should just ask her about it?

I know when I like a guy, even we we talk about our past relationships, I won't mention my ex being my best friend. Personally, it is out of fear that the crush will feel threatened...so you could consider it a warped form of protection.

She isnt giving you the opportunity to retalliate or express concern   about this (That is what she thinks..under the assumption that you don't know.).

Answer 2

Yes, she shouldn't lie if she has nothing to hide.  but all I have to say is that you have to be careful how you get people.  If she had a boyfriend when you met her why wouldn't she meet anyone while she's with you.  Not to rain on your parade or put thoughts in your head, but you need to hear some truth.

Answer 3

I'm sorry but she's lying to you in so many ways it's not funny.  She thinks she is sparing your feelings, but you know the truth.  If her ex's didn't mean anything to her then why was she with them?  Why's she with you?

If she would allow herself to be stolen away by you from an ex, guess what that means someone else can easily steal her away from you.

She lies about being in contact with her ex's as you've seen comments on Facebook.

Sorry she's not trust worthy.