Relationship question?

Question

Hey, i'm looking for a little input on a problem I'm having with my relationship. I've been seeing this girl for three months. She recently got back from a month long vacation on sunday. When she got back she texted me right when she got off the plane and said she wanted to hang out in two days. The night before we were suppose to get together she said she felt sick from jet lag (I took that as her way of saying she didn't want to do anything). A couple of days have past and today she said she is mad at me for not coming to see her. I said I would come. She said no again...A few more text messages were sent and I told her I loved her (for the first time). She said that "she knows that i do but feels like things are moving to fast". I said "alright well i'll give you your space then. I obviously made you feel weird and I apologize." We haven't said anything to each other since. I feel like I'm getting a lot of mixed signals and I just wanted to get some input from others. Thanks.

Answer 1

It doesn't sound as if she's as into you as you are for her. Honestly, I suspect she's not worth your emotional effort, and you're right, she's sending ridiculous mixed signals.

Answer 2

you are getting mixed signals..pretty much her saying she was sick was her way of seeing if you "cared" about her pretty much she wanted you to come over and see her anyways..

Answer 3

i think ppl need 2 stop textin these kinda conversation, u shud atleast be on the phone 2 pick up the persons mood... try havin a real conversation over dinner 2 see where ya'll stand

Answer 4

You definitely are getting mixed signals and from what I can see she wants space.  Let her come to you and text you maybe then she can make up her mind.  If you don't want to wait i suggest you move on.

Answer 5

Oh come on now... leave her alone!  She has been gone a month, and if she cared for you she would have come home and wanted to see you ASAP! Also, during that month did she do anything to keep in touch with you?  If not, that says something right there!

Thanks for reading!

Answer 6

Your assessment is correct, based on the information you gave us.  The problem, however, with electronic communications...i,e...text, email, and even telephones, is you rarely get a clear picture of what the person is saying/thinking/feeling.  In person, face to face, is always the best form of communication, especially when you are dealing with matters of the heart.  If you can get "in person" with

her you will be able to detect and feel whether she is being dishonest,

insincere or evasive.....or maybe she really is just hurt but misunderstanding your motives, and you'll see the pain in her eyes and hear the hurt in her voice when your in person.  I suggest you

do whatever you can to meet up with her, just to talk, and then see what happens.

Answer 7

She Loves You . Just Leave Her Alone For A While U Might Be With Her Abit To Much

Answer 8

NEVER tell a girl you love her if you feel she is being distant. It works the oppisite of what you want it to, You will learn. Just tell her to call you if she wants to see you, that you wont bother her. And if she doesnt call then she isnt interested. And dont try to contact her any longer if she doesnt call.  Just put it in the past and move on, You will get over it I promise. Just dont waite around for her too long maybe a few weeks.

Answer 9

Shes a player, sorry you don't need to be with this girl.