Relationships keep going wrong, can you help?

Question

I am 15 years old, 16 in February, and I can clearly state that each relationship I have had so far, I have ruined, and I do not know what I am doing wrong to make it all turn out like this. I know that I am not pushy with people, because that is not the sort of person that I am. However, Everytime I start liking a lad, and then they tell me they like me back, they end up hating me, and nothing ever happens.

Does anyone have any idea what I could be doing so wrong?

xx

Answer 1

Trust me, it sucks, but it's just your age group. When you (and the people you date) are older, it will definetly change. Right now everybody is just "testing the waters" and figuring out how to do it. You just have to wait. I went through the same thing and so did my brother and all of my friends. I wouldn't start worrying until you were at least 20 and even then, it's possible you wouldn't have found a good relationship.

Just remember that you're not doing anything wrong. It works out like this for most people when they're 15.  

Answer 2

HAVE YOU EVER STOPED TO THINK IT'S NOT *YOU* WITH THE PROBLEMS BUT THE GUYS YOUR GOING FOR?!

Answer 3

i don't know what u did... but u can always ask ur x's what was it that they hated about the relationship with u.. if they tell u what u did wrong.. u could learn from ur mistake and try to not do it again when u r in a relationshp

Answer 4

You're not doing anything wrong.

If you're being yourself, which it sounds like you are...then why are YOU to blame?

I wouldn't put the blame on anyone, just incompatibility. The lads you're after might like you but then realise you aren't "right" for them and because they're still young and immature at 15 (well, most of them) they end up "hating" you because they don't know how to act!

Hope I helped.

Answer 5

I am 15, and none of my relationships have been great...but to be honest, i've never really taken them that seriously. You're still really young, and many of the relationships that you have now are going to end badly...its called gaining experience, and its the only way to do it. At 15, there are so many other things that are more important than your love life...you spend around 18 years of your life being a teenager, you've got the rest of it to worry about this kinda thing! Just have fun and try not to take it to seriously and remember that no matter what comes out of it, you're learning something (:

Answer 6

Good heavens Missy, you are but an embryo!  Tell me that "every relationship I've ever had has failed" when you are forty, and I may be able to help you.

Answer 7

Youre young, and boys your age are just immature. Relationships are not much more than crushes and a bit of fun at your age. Stop worrying, and enjoy the rest of your childhood because it wont last much longer..  

Answer 8

Well, a good idea is to ask what they "hate" you for it might be that they ain't really worthy enough for ya. Sometimes people claim to like ya but then in the end not like who you really are and will leave on ya.... the best thing to do is yeah find out but then find someone who truly likes you for who you really are.