Relationships - married man only?

Question

i have met this man , well he is married but he has never mentioned it , until i found out recently. well we have been flirting and just playing around but that is as far it goes. we havent slept luckily. now i have a problem forgetting him because i feel this anger and jealousy that there is a man i cant have and cant stop thinking about him days and nights. i want to know how do married man feel ( if they having feelings towards the person the are messing with ) in this case me , do they feel bad and do they forget her if supposedly he " had feelings for her " or do they just put on a cool look and move on . he has apparently wet dreams about me.

Answer 1

lord. are you serious.

move on. it's strange that you're obsessing over this. grow up.

he's thinking about you and every other ho or p**n star out there. you're just another girl, NOTHING SPECIAL.

Answer 2

It's called playing along. He is attracted to you and he wasn't scared to express that to you. End of story. But you took it quite far. Every man or woman would have feelings for another good looking and available person of the opposite s*x whether married or not. That's just human. But he is committed. And he can't move along that path further. Or may be he just wanted to use you. Anyway he was just taking a break from his 'hubby job'. You should be matured enough to understand that.Or better still, you will understand that once you have had several dull years of marriage and then have an irresistible man walk into your everyday life asking for nothing. Honestly tell me if you would tell him that you are married right away or would you wait and see where it goes rather than kill the fun? You have no other role in this relation than that of "dirty home wrecking mistress".

This is not a justification of what he did. This is just an explanation of what made him do that. So stop trying to find fault with him so as to make yourself feel better. Think about you. Now that you know he was lying but still want him, do you want to stop or do you want to continue? But as the guy before said the road ahead leads to right off the cliff...

Answer 3

You should thank god he saved u from a cheater its good idea to find

out all about some body before u start going out.

Answer 4

All he wanted was some free easy s*x. He never had any feelings for you at all. He doesn't feel bad at all.  You meant nothing to him.

Answer 5

Sweetie, don't fool yourself into getting hurt.  You're just extra s*x to him, no matter what line of BS he feeds you.  

Answer 6

Well I won't even talk about the fact that it is wrong to be dating a married man. But I would say that he probably thinks about you as much you him.

But it is still wrong.  

Answer 7

Things start with flirting then they get serious.....then someone gets hurt Like you (in your case) mostly it leaves an ache in the hearts of both the parties. but we are all so igh headed that we fail to except our faults. Probably he too is feeling guilt in a different way too head strong to apologize

Answer 8

beware f married men

Answer 9

I don't have feeling for the women who have affairs with, it's just s*x and someone to hang out with every now and then. I tell them from the beginning I'm not looking for a serious relationship.

If they start developing feelings, I get rid of them.

Most married men who cheat are not going to leave their wives, especially if they have children. That is why you should never get involved with a married  man unless you can accept that he only wants s*x.

Answer 10

He is just looking for s*x.

Answer 11

Yes..he has feelings for you.  And you have feelings for him.  I'm sure he thinks of you often.  The difference is that your feelings are in your heart and his feelings are a little further south.  Your thoughts are about how much you like him and his thoughts are how he can get in the sack with the least effort possible with out his wife finding out.

Answer 12

Ah...it's all about newness...and the unknown. Most men would pursue a woman if they are looking...married or not.  That does not make it right..and usually both parties find that out after the fact.  Think about 6 months from now...or put yourself in his wife's shoes...and walk a mile in them.

Answer 13

The road you are on goes off a cliff. Hit the brakes fast.