Relatives coming to visit?

Question

Okay, well my relatives from up north are coming to visit this week and I haven't seen them in over two years and I should be excited, but I'm worried because whenever anyone comes, they always talk about how different I am and try to make me tell them things and sometimes they say that they liked me better before and it hurts my feelings. And then they leave and I don't get to see them for more years and I never even get to enjoy the time they are here. So my question is, how do I stop caring so much what they think of me?

Answer 1

think about who you want to be

not who they want you to be.

Answer 2

Stop them from coming to visit lol

Answer 3

It's hard to hear things like that from your relatives, but as long as your feel you are a good hearted person, you shouldn't let it get to you. If you are happy and accept yourself for who you are, then that's all that should matter.