Repeating dreams about a man in my life?

Question

In my dreams earlier it always started out that we're in church and he's standing near me,flirting and yet oddly remote and distant.He looks really different than in real life,like he's wearing a hair piece in an off shade of red.I feel torn between staying and leaving because it seems he's playing a game with me.So I leave and wake up feeling sad for letting him go.Then two days ago I dream we're in church again,he looks how he looks normally,flirtatious and friendly,we're very comfortable around each other and out of the blue in front of everyone he kisses me.I without thinking kiss him back and wake up.The thing is,we know each other,are not dating and I'm not entirely sure about how things are going,the last dreams reflect how I feel about him,but he's too shy to approach me and it's conflicting for me.My feelings for him are mixed up and confused.What could my dreams mean?

Answer 1

I think it's quite clear how you feel about him-- you like him much more than you want to. But it happens, and you should embrace it. I assure you that if you make good on your relationship with him, the dreams will stop. Or escalate. Go do something about it. You obviously love him.

Answer 2

One opinion:

Earlier dreams indicate your dreaming conscious', which is your outer waking subconscious', opinion/perception of him:  wig = false front; off shade of red = same warning opinion.

Church = safe, true, honest-to-God (and spiritual congregation) setting.

Later dreams indicate your dreaming conscious has become more "diagnostic" of him; you feel you know him more accurately.

In front of everyone = purpose of holy wedding, demonstration of faithfulness.

In outer waking life, he is too shy.  So hand him a copy of "For Men Only," Shaunti Feldhahn, and "What Wives Wish Their Husbands Knew about Women," Dr. James Dobson--that'll scare him but good!

More seriously...perhaps you could read "Soul Mates and Twin Flames," Elizabeth Clare Prophet, and/or "For Women Only," Shaunti Feldhahn, for insight as to how to be more approachable or attractive to him.

For example, it is the case that women prefer love to respect, about 60-40%; while men prefer to be respected more than loved, about 60-40%.  Hence, if he likes working on cars, bowling, fishing, watching football, you will attract him more if you are asking simple, but caring, questions, are able to hand him a tool, etc., than if you wear pink and bat your eyelashes, give him chocolate, etc.

You'd prefer the reverse, but that's the balancing of the complementary genderness in which each gives the other what they prefer (60-40, 40-60..."do the math" :)

Answer 3

You must be thinking about him a lot. Maybe you love him.

Answer 4

One suggestion is to imagine yourself as the man of your dreams. Is it possible his actions or appearance is yourself  doing the same thing. The church could mean different things,looking for the truth or security or your inner being seeking help from a higher power.

Answer 5

This just means you are thinking about him a lot.

Dreams usually have the opposite meanings..

and it could mean that you will have to be the one to approach him as he is shy.

Answer 6

it seems that u like him, but things just doesn't work out so well...word of advise: make a move, give him some signs if you really like him

Answer 7

well the "Hair piece" makeing him look like he is difrent suports the mixed fealings about him.

teh flyerting means you dont want him to be shy and u want him to be outgoing

church could mean a comftrable invironment so you feel comftrable around him.

i say ask him out dispite your mixed fealings