Reposted cuz i got no answers last time... Im worried about the cramps i've been getting!!?

Question

I'm kind of worried because I thought I was pregnant (had unprotected s*x on my fertile day and he did finish inside of me) cuz I was almost 2 weeks late on my period. I had abnormal spotting 1 1/2 weeks before my scheduled period. Um, then i started bleeding, (VERY VERY lightly) for about 8 days. My periods are normally 3-5 days, very heavy w/ clotting. Had none of that this time... I had a Dr. App. this past friday and everything looked normal I guess because she didn't say anything. She gave me full pap and tested me for everything, UTI and pregnancy came back negative. But I've heard that sometimes only a blood test will show positive??... My b*****s are sore, and fuller... I'm irritable, and feel and LOOK bloated in my lower abdomin. But for almost a week now I've been having very bad cramps in my whole lower section and when I sit down, and I'm wearing jeans or something that fits tightly around my waist I'm getting a pain in that shots from my belly button, straight down!!! My lower back is hurting so bad.....It feels like something is pushing my lower back and lower abdominal region apart... It hurts to have a BM or to pass gas. (I've been VERY gassy). It's like i cramp. It's starting to worry me. I think I need a new OB/GYN because I felt like she didn't take it as seriously as I am... anyways...When i wake up i feel very HOT.. My body is hot.. I feel like it's about 95 degrees in my appartment. even if my thermostat is set at 68. Could I still be pregnant even tho urine tests are saying NO? or is it something more serious??????????

2 hours ago - 3 days left to answer.

Additional Details

2 hours ago

I cramped a week before my period. but not while I bled for the 8 days... Aug. 3rd I was suppost to start.. i started on the 13

2 hours ago

and I have had unprotected s*x since i stopped bleeding... about 3 day after i stopped bleeding after s*x i went to wipe and it was pink.... why is that??????

Answer 1

First of All why are you having unprotected s*x with out birth control?  You are setting your self up for a baby.  Many women have been in your shoes and regret alot.  So don't make a mistake.  when you are pregnant sometimes your period can be light and not as heavy but the only option you have is to give it 30 days.  You can see if your period will come on then and 14 days will tell you if you are pregnant.  Good LUck.

Answer 2

hiya,

right calm down and listen.

1st it can take 2weeks until a pregnancy can show up on a pee test so yes u could be pregnant BUT even if u are u still wouldnt be bloating etc etc so early in preg lol, u'd experiance this in 4-5months gone aprox. be patient and wait awhile then do a preg test. its cheaper if u wait and see if u get a period but yes take a test in afew weeks if ur still worried.

2nd. your symtoms sound like hormones possibly or IBS (irritable bowl syndrome) are u under any stress at the min? stress can cause all sort like constpation(spelling) being gassy -both these can cause really bad pains in your lower body. gosh stress can cause allsorts which i think mite be your problem.

if you dont agree with any of this and truely believe you have something wrong then go back to the doc, mayb ask to speak to another doc and tell all again and ask for further testing.

hope all goes well with you. good luck

Answer 3

stop stressin! you are makin your body mess up your cycle! your peroid keps going on and comin off because you are stressed! so stop it! you'll be fine. or........ your prego.

Answer 4

How old are you? I asked because only a child would repeat what was causing them concern in the first place, you thought you were pregnant after having unprotected s*x, test came back negative, you're still having problems yet you continue to have unprotected s*x!! Some of the things you listed could be systems from your cycle and stress but also pregnancy, so I suggest seeing another doctor and explaining in full details. In the mean time it would be a good idea to refrain from having unprotected s*x.