Resolving roomate issues(sorry i ran out of room)?

Question

Just moved to college.I'm from a small town.I'm sharing an apartment with 3 other girls from big cities.All 3 girls are still teenagers while i'm 23.I was technically the last person to settle in since i was delayed comapired with them.Not to mention after the 2 days the girls didn't clean up anything within the apart. when you're suppose to clean the living areas before move in so they would put clean silverwear onto the dirty drawers n whatnot.So i had to clean up the whole apart. they then later complained that 'noone asked me to clean' when it was horrid since the drawers were just full of dirt.I was also the last person to put in food in both the cupboards n fridge.In the cupboards they left me no room so i had to 'make' room which is actually a small section but 1 person keeps moving my food around so i always put it back(after several days this gets annoying), they're always gone with some guys from next door late at night or they bring them upstairs w/o saying anything. help!

Answer 1

You can talk to them from now til doomsday and you'd be wasting your breath. They are teenage girls, AKA monsters from h**l who think the world revolves around them. They are self centered egotistical arrogant twats and your only solution is to move and find new and more mature roommates. This will not work; leave the teen piggies in their piggy sty and you find a decent place to live with decent people.

Answer 2

Start looking for different roommates...I predict this situation isn't going to improve.  You are dealing with teenagers-sounds like they are very self-centered.  Move on!

Answer 3

it can be very frustrating when no one is co operating. i'd try one more time to talk to these girls. do it as a group with everyone present. talk firmly and matter of factly. do not whine. dont say things like you do this and you do that. just simply state that there WILL be some changes around there. make it seem like its a group project. lets decide together how we can re arrange the kitchen better so we can all have our space. lets come up with a plan as to how to allow boys here without it annoying everyone. these girls are taking advantage of you because of your age. they think its cute and all grown up to bully an adult when they are teens. they think 3 against 1 you lose. take charge and show them they need to co operate for the betterment of all.

Answer 4

sit down with them all and come up with some rules that you can all live by.  Maybe your college has a peer mediation office.  See if they or the Dormitory dept can give you some help or advice.

if they are not compliant, just move out and find more mature roomies.

Answer 5

I feel for you but I don't see any amicable solution. It will get worse to the point that you will probably be the but of their own laziness. Unless you want to downgrade your standards - please don't - I think new roomies are the go.

Answer 6

get some more mature roomies!