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I have been struggling with this for a while now and I don't know what to do. My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs but been together for 10 yrs and I have cheated on her twice but she has taken me back and I told her that I was not going to cheat on her again and I have not cheated and that has been 3 almost 4 yrs ago. I am working overseas and it will be a month since I have been here but she has met up with her exboyfriend and she was deny anything was going on and something was telling me that it was and she say it is not. Well she has told me that she was going to break it off once she finally told me and like a fool I said ok and I believe her because that is something that she said she was going to do. Well one day I did not call her for a couple of days and when I did she told me that she wanted to be with me and only me and I ask her was she sure and she said yes she is. I told her that if she wanted to be with me she would have to end her friendship with this dude and she said she was just trust her. So one day I was on the phone with and her cell phone rung and she answer it but she put me on mute and I was puzzle like why did she do that and she came up with this lie that she was on the phone with the light company and I don't believe that at all. She was like you thought it was that guy and I said yes and she was like he has his own ring tone so then I told her well if yall are not talking then erase his number and pretty much she was saying no she was not going to do that. I was on the phone with her the other day and she told me this and I did not bring it up and she said that she broke her friendship off with this dude and I was like ok which I was happy in the inside because that is something that I wanted to here. About two wks ago I call hm and check the call notes and this guy called the house looking for this guy so I ask her bout that and she said that she told me not to call the house at all because they are not messing around but the then I check the call notes the other day and it said I had the wrong password so then I check it again and it say the same thing again. Well this morning down here I called her and ask her bout that and she said that she change it because she did not want any type of confusing going which I did not understand that and she gave me the new password which it don't matter to me at all but I don't understand why she change it unless she is trying to hide something. So she would tell me that she love me before we hang up but she did not say anything about it but I called her back and ask her why she did not say she love she started laugh and she said she could not believe I called her back to ask her that and I could have said it before we hung up. She said she wants to go to marriage counseling and she wants her marriage and she don't want to lose me but I don't know what to do right now. I don't know if I want to stay or leave but I really want to stay but being out here to me it is hard to trust her and I go hm next month and I was going to see what is what between us but until then I don't know what to do.
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