Robbing my guy is this revenge at its best or is it too over the top?

Question

I have been with a guy for two years off and on.

He cheated twice before and we seperated. We decided to get back together and try to make things work and for the mosy part there has been a huge improvemnet on his part.

Well I found out that this weekend he cheated on me again and I am just sick of it.

I haven't confronted him but I know that he did without a shadow of a doubt.

See the thing is I don't even care if he does see other girls as long as he would tell me that he was and not make it seem like I was the only one when I wasn't. My whole thing is I can't stand being lied to. Plus on top of it how could he say he loves me but then just lie to me in my face?

Anyways within these two years I have bought him lots of gifts Sean John clothes, shoes an expensive Cowboys football team comforter and much more.

So I am just fed up I was thinking that when he is in the shower I can just grab all the things that I have bought him and leave and just be done for good because I can do so much better.

It's not that I want to have this stuff back it's that he doesn't deserve it. And he feels like he is entitled, Plus he puts a lot of value on his material things. I just want him to feel a bit of what he has done to me.

I am not hurt that he cheated this weekend I haven't even brought it up to him. I think one person can only take so much and I have come to my point. I just don't care and I have had enough.

I am 22 and he is 30.

Really what do you think? I mean everything that I have gotten him has to add up to at least a thousand dollars.

He has never gotten me anything not for my birthday or Christmas. He is very selfish and unconsiderate.

Honest opinions please.

Answer 1

how honest of an opinion can you handle?

i think you are desperate. why would you keep buying things for a man who never bought you anything. he openly disrespects you and you take it. you need to up your game.

Answer 2

i'd do it...makes since to me.  and i must add...that you realizing you deserve better is a huge step...i think you need to get out of the relationship and move on...i'm not materialistic, but that's pretty $hitty of him not to even get you something for your birthday...

Answer 3

Yes you could rob him and take all the things that you bought him, but IMO that is petty and childish if you really want to get back at him just cut him off completely.  When he sees that you are not messing with him anymore that will really eat him up.