Robert Anthony....When you blame others, you give up your power to change!?

Question

What do you think is meant by this?

I don`t see it.

not straightaway anyway

Answer 1

it means that if you start blaming others for everything, you think you are always rite and you stop learning the right thing.

Answer 2

Hiya I was in the middle of answering but my pal popped round.  I was going to say that if you blame others you aren't realising your own shortcomings and therefore don't know what to change, or don't even recognise the need to.

Answer 3

Wow, deep one, is it because it's Sunday......

You lack growth when you quit looking internally.....

;)

Answer 4

When you blame others, you give up your power and responsibility in a situation.  You are making yourself the victim.  In general, victims have no control over their situations, therefore no power to change anything.  Blaming others gives others control, makes you the victim and takes away your power to change anything about your situation.  Just a thought, anyway.