Romance with Greek guy?

Question

Are Greek men generally old fashioned about making the first move romantically?

I really like someone in Greece,and last year I thought he had feelings for me too-but now I don`t hear from him very often-he is single now but I am still in a very unhappy relationship-its too complicated to explain on here-but can anyone please simply explain how men (in their 30`s) act with a woman they like in Greece?

Thanks-serious answers only please

Answer 1

greek men in their 30's are not ready to settle down.  the majority of them are mama's boys.  i wouldn't even go there.  plus while guys here in the states are working and paying off their first mortgage, most greek guys live w/their parents and hope to one day inherit the family home.

Answer 2

In my experience if a Greek guy likes a woman he makes it known.  He'll buy you a drink or pay for your bill if he sees you at a cafe or a bar or something.  Call you up, invite you to the beach or to lunch etc etc.  I have found Greek men to be very forthcoming.  On the odd occasion I have come across a really shy Greek guy (like a friend or something...I am married lol this is all observational) and man sometimes they need a boot in the butt to make a move on a gal.

  In my opinion just be nice and friendly and accept his offers etc and always smile and try and show you are interested without draping yourself on him.  If he doesnt make any move you have 2 choices....either say right up front that you are interested if you've got the guts, or just slowly cut off contact.  Sometimes guys are blind as bats and the cutting off contact might make them realise something is up.  Otherwise you've done yourself a favour.  Good luck

Answer 3

they are men! ask him outright how he feels about you?

do you think all english men act the same?

Answer 4

Looks like someone moved on and someone is left with memories. It is very romantic to believe that  any sort of relationship can last long distance.

Since you are still in an unhappy relationship, is an extra incentive for him to move on. Sounds like he did.

This has nothing to do with Greek men being shy, it has a lot to do with moving on in life.

Good luck

Answer 5

If you were my friend, I would FOR SURE tell you to move on.  No, Greek guy is going to wait for, or be faithful in a long distance relationship. Greeks love to party. When you mix hot, s**y Mediterranean men, with liquor and s**y girls..trust me..he is not thinking about you.

It is also true, as someone else mentioned, that Many Greek guys prey on tourists. In fact, there are a few Greek men who actually get paid to make sure that the female tourists "enjoy" (you know what Im talking about)  their time in Greece. Sad..but true.

Greeks are wonderful, fun loving, passionate people. But unless you live there, and are in a serious relationship...forget it.

Answer 6

First of all long distance relationships don't work unless the people involved already have history together and they love each other very much.From what you say not only you don't have a relationship with the guy but you are in another one.So it' is not up to him but up to you to go on the line and tell him what you feel.But if you are not going to be together what's the point?

To the "hi-c":Greek people according to research work the longest hours in Europe.They also get paid the less. I am working 10 years and only a year ago I managed to rent a house because I could not afford it. The salaries here are not like in USA dear friend.The cost of living here would make you work like a slave and you would go back to your country crying...If you Know nothing of a situation you might as well not talk at all.

Answer 7

Greek men do not 'prey' on women!! Greek guys tend to be very traditional ( you still see all the men huddled in the coffee bars....the women are left at home!!) and, if this is a long distant 'relationship' then he will just be living his own life in his country. Yes, they can be very romantic and charming....but not at all predatory, such a the Turkish guys for istance, but at the end of the day....they do still tend to be family orientated. We live in Cyprus, and have some great Greek friends, and we have commented previously that they do seem to pretty much stick with their families and close friends in an old fashioned, traditional sort of way. The ones we know are very loyal, very loving, and very genuine. I really cherish our friendships.....but at the end of the day....we know their families mean a whole lot more to them.

Answer 8

Sounds like the bigger issue (from your limited info) is that it is a long distance relationship and not that being Greek has anything to do with it.

As far as I know, Greek men have a lot of bravado when they are interested in somebody. My advice is stay in touch, but unless you have some sort of a commitment with this man, build a life where you are.

Answer 9

I really wouldnt go there. Greek men tend to prey on women on holidays as they know a lot of them are out for some no frills s*x.

Answer 10

Probably like all meditareannean men...a bit macho, very passionate, good lover,but possibly just flirting...Don't know...It depends on the guy's personality...