Romantic Help - Not getting goosebumps or shivers down my spine...?

Question

Me and my current girlfriend have been together for about 10 weeks now, I love her very much.

The s*x is great, we both always have very powerful orgasms. We are also very intimate overall and communicate very well with each other.

However...You know the sensitive part of the earlobe if it is licked or sucked on can feel very intense and give u shivers down your spine as well as goose bumps, this sensation also applies to the neck and shoulder areas. (At least for me.)

Well, as it is when she pays attention to those certain erogenous zones it feels good but it doesen't give me goose bumps or those amazing shivers down my spine, this includes my neck and shoulder areas.

So, I was wondering, is this a mental thing or is she just not good at stimulating those certain areas? Because, with my two previous ex's who I happened to love less than my current GF ironically were able to give me goose bumps and shivers down my spine quite easily....I honestly don't know what is wrong...

So what should i do...I miss those feelings sooooo bad. :-(

Are there any techniques we could try? Things she should do different? Has this similar thing happened to any of you all and were you able to fix it?

Any help will be greatly appreciated.

Thank you.

Answer 1

I hate to give this advice but let her know and make teasing longer and have less s*x. One reason it might not be as great is because you got used to it but it could also just be because there are times that it works and times that it doesn't. There are lots of things that work form me but some days they just aren't as they were yesterday or the day before.

I hope I helped.

I would like to know if it did.

Answer 2

I don't do a lot of kissing my boyfriend around those areas.  Maybe just because we've been together too long...?  So you might not want to post this question here, but I know that in the marriage and divorce section, there a lot of ladies with a lot of great advice that could probably help you out unless you meant to post in the men's health section.  Maybe you are looking into it too much though.

Answer 3

ur probably just getting used to it