Romantic? Or over the top?

Question

If I want to apologise to a girl and I haven't spoken to her in 2 months, is it too over the top to buy a big bunch of flowers (roses, of course) and give them to her and apologise for being a jerk?

Because I'm thinking about it and I know she's a bit of a romantic herself but we haven't talked in so long that I dunno....

And if I do that, should I immediately ask her to come for a walk with me to talk about some issues we have? Or should I just apologise and leave it at that and talk another time?

Feedback much appreciated.

Answer 1

i like another persons idea of just bringing one rose, and then apologize for being such a jerk, if she wants to talk then talk but if she doesn't i wouldn't just hang around.

Answer 2

noooo dont take flowers thats just clingy and weird u didnt talk for 2 months she might flip lol like the other person said 1 rose will do and just talkkkk alot and apologisee and mean it look in her eyes and stuff lol goood luck darling

Answer 3

No............talk to her.

Answer 4

When you apologize and bring a large gift, it looks like you're trying to buy forgiveness. So don't do it that way.

Bring ONE rose, apologize to her for being a jerk, and then take her cue. If she wants to hang out with you, fine. If not, go away and let her process it. Do *not* talk about any issues you have. That erases your entire apology. It's not the right time to do it. Good luck.

Answer 5

No its a great idea! Two months is not that long so go for it and best of luck