Rough day at school. PLEASE HELP I need Advice.?

Question

It was the second day of school today. Last year was sixth grade and no one seemed to like me, I got made fun of almost every day, and was just the laughingstock of the world over there. Everyone said I was ugly, and I think I'm fairly pretty. This year, I wanted to go to seventh grade and have things be different. There are different kids in the school. So after today I sit down and think about my day and my so called "friend" doesn't listen to me when I talk, and she turns around and makes fun of me for no reason. Forget her, but my main problem is, it's all the same! everyone hates me, and I KNOW that the guy I like likes me back cause his best friend told me and he won't ask me out or say yes when I asked him only because he'd be embarassed to go out with me.

Because of that, all my friends had boyfriends in fourth grade except me. I'm the only girl in my school who's never had a boyfriend. Any advice? I need it to make it through another tough year.

Answer 1

everybody is going to tell you that forget what people think of yo

and that is really hard thing to do so what you do is  think of your favorite song and sing it to yourself to make you feel better

and if people think of you ugly they might be jealous so before you lave the house point out  the thing that you like about our self and eave the house before you point out any thing that you dislike (CUZ that's not good )

then if  people picked on you in 6th grade you know its a new school you can drift away from you bad friends that's what happens when you move to a new school you drift away from you friends but always hold on to the ones who count

and if one of your old classmate told you that he likes you or one of the people  who when to your old school there is Chance that they r messing with you

and then with the boy if you still like him just try to be friends With him

get a makeover to make him notice you but dont do the make over yourself

Answer 2

First, you need to drop your fake friend. And second you need to find some people who appreciate you for who you are and can be your real friends. I'm certain not everyone hates you. Branch out and try meeting more people. It can be difficult but  people who say you're ugly are probably just jealous.

7th grade is that time when some girls have more than others so to cope with it they proceed with the name calling. It's natural.

And its not bad being the only girl whose never had a boyfriend in school! That's ok . Having less keeps you from getting certain bad labels when you enter high school!

And if the guy is embarrassed to be seen with you then he doesn't need to be your boyfriend. Basically find your niche and you will be ok! It's better to have no company that be around people who constantly make you miserable. But you'll find the right people to be around. :-)

Answer 3

First, try to ask people what they think is so wrong about you, and if it really is that you don't feel like you should be respected, then it's time to start loving yourself! Stand in front of a mirror and tell your reflection all the things that make you great! But if it's because people don't like stuff about you, then as long as the stuff is bad, (like being bossy, rude, clingy,) then try to change for the better! And as for that guy, make sure he really likes you, from him. It would be embarrassing to flirt or something with him when he doesn't really like you! Oh, and talk to your "friend" about why she was so mean, and if it's a bad reason, then it wold be best to forget the friendship!

Answer 4

Pre Teenagers and Teenagers never get over the "i'm prettier than you, better than you" thing, It just what they do. As for your friends, In school you will go through a lot before you find the best ones. People make fun of others because it makes them feel better, Don't think your not good enough to hang out with people, dear. As for the guy thing, If he's embrassed to be with you then forget him, You are a lot better than that.

Answer 5

Hang tight, talk to the guy you like, and try not to let people get to you.

Answer 6

get with him..... and look prettier - doesn't matter wat they say but just get a bf and look pretty just in case

Answer 7

My advice to you is to just worry about school. Sure it's hard to see everyone around you being all coupled up with someone and sharing it with the world, but you obviously haven't been given that straw.

As for the friend thing, I think you should switch tables. Find the underdogs of your school. If the guy you like is too much of a dweeb to be cool with you then he doesn't deserve your time. Honestly.

7th grade is not the time to be worrying about this stuff, it's all needless drama distracting you from the real goal: Getting the h**l out of school!

Good luck.

Answer 8

Don't be too hard on yourself. I mean, really, you do have to be a s***k to have a bf in 4th grade.

Bu anyways, it's not too late to change the way you are.

The only thing is, don't be someone you're not. Not just because it's not the real you, but because it kinda wannabe-ish.

I recommend that you watch the movie Mean Girls. It's all about a girl who doesn't fit in, so decides to be part of the "in" crowd. In the end, she realizes that it's not for her and that it's not worth it.

Look, if you wanna be part of that crowd, whatever. It may make things easier for yo now, but later on, you'll regret it.

If you don't wanna see it that way, then think of it this way.

That guy likes you for WHO you are NOW!

You never had to be "cool" per say for him to notice you.

And if the ****** is "embarrassed " of you, then s***w him. If he can't take the criticism, then he is a real pu$$y.

Look, normally, I don't cuss a lot when I'm answering questions, but I'm quite pissed.

Bottom-line, there has to be a crowd in that middle school that you fit in with. There has to be at the very least one person who appreciates you for who you are and is not afraid to go public with. Stick with them, because it's really hard to find decent friends. I know bcuz I'm in 8th grade.

Believer me, it can be worse.

BTW, you may wanna confront this guy who's got a crush on you. Tell him how it is and that if he can't o "public" with you, then he's not worth anything.

Don't take my advice if you don't wanna. But it's out on the table. Just do what you think i best, and I'm sure you will survive 7th grade.

Good Luck!

Answer 9

Let the girls say what they say. if you want a better life don't care about what other people think of you. only care about what you think of yourself. that guy does not deserve you if he is afraid to go out with you because your not popularity. I'm sure your beautiful and that's probably why they are making fun of you. jealousy.

Answer 10

the freind of the guy is probably lying to you to just make u think that the guy likes you.. but if u are like 110% sure that he does then maybe u need to put ur act together.. start by getting a makeover like .. tydying ur hair up.. wearig ur uniform proparly.. and soo on.. u have to show everyone that u dont want to be made fum of anymore..

Answer 11

who cares what anyone else thinks. the people in your school are probably just typical 7th graders, immature and superficial. most importantly, if you like yourself you have nothing to worry about.  

Answer 12

awww, thats so cute

Answer 13

Hi! this is dimple.i read ur problem. u say me that u havenot any b.frnd. bt it doesnot matter.i know u r very preety.if someone say dat u r ugly. dont mind. only beleive in god. and do ur work very-2 efficiently. if u will b intellegent then everybody like u.its my personal experience.don't say dat u r ugly. external beauty is very important than internal.plz dear concentrate on ur own studies. u know in my school life. i also havenot any b.frnd.u r a god gift.and also maintain ur self. dont feel embrace. if u like my advice then tell me. ok. love u frnd.........