She is in her early 80s and i know she is old and all but she is just very harsh sometimes about what she says to people. When i was younger, i used to be obese and my grandma was like " d**n, you need to lose some weight" and it made me VERY self conscious about my weight ever since, and throughout the years, i lost a ton of weight and now i am normal but she keeps on saying i am way too overweight and i am getting sick of it. She calls my mother a self-fish ***** and sometimes my mom gets really frustrated with the way she acts to her and i feel bad. My grandma always calls my sister a rude child because she hangs out with her friends "too much" when she doesn't and when we confront her about things like this, she gets furious and we have to let her win or she keeps going at it forever. How should i act the next time she does these things? For the past years i have been very quiet about and just let it pass by but it's really pissing me off now. Whats a good assertive way to act, but will let her know how badly she treats us at the same time?
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