Rude people on Y/A?

Question

I am a recent graduate. I would love to go back to my home country and work there. I have asked questions about employment and life in my country since I have not been there for years.

There is very rude foreigner man who has opened business in my country. He always give the worst, judgment, and negative asnwer he can. For example: he said, I will never get a head in my home country because I am not an IVY graduates from America. They are many corruptions and office politics in my country. I am young and have NO expereince noone will hire me.

I also asked question about my BF moves to my country with me. He said, I am just a typical girl who cling to one guy forever. He said, my BF is poor because he is a military officer. He said, 95% of military officer is not even middle class blah, blah, blah.

I am already tired and confused to take a big risk to move back home. Here come a stupid idiot who try to make me feel worst.

Answer 1

No.

Don't think so.

Expose the young one were living in misery with faulty communication system.

With misinterpretation, miscommunication, communication failures and communication break-down.

Genesis 11.1

What do you think?

Answer 2

Maybe he was just giving you his honest opinion. Sometimes the answers aren't what we want to hear.

Answer 3

You asked a man you don't know about a major life decision which you're not going to make unless you're on the arm of a man you met in another country.  Are you hoping more men answer your question here?  Stop it with the man advice, honey.  Stay in the USA, work on your English writing skills and try to make a few decisions without a man.  Good luck.

Answer 4

look you can't let people put you down with words. they dont know you, they dont know your boyfriend, they dont know your lifestyle. if you let this "foreigner" guy chase you out of the country and let him put you down, then he has already won.

go ahead and move back home becuase, according to your other question, you just can't stand the guy.

Answer 5

Why have you not sought another opinion?

   Once you know an individual will provide  only negative feed back on any subject you mention, it's time to seek input from some other sources.  Gather as much information as you can and then make your decision.

Answer 6

Why don't you do some research for yourself about if you will be able to work and make a decent living in your home country?

Answer 7

OOOhh....don't let one jerk get you upset....search your heart and your mind and I bet you will come up with the correct choice...moving is scary sometimes...don't be too hard on yourself....good luck...-wendy