Rude younger sister help?!?

Question

my sister is 14 and I'm 17 i don't know if its because of our age differences why are personalities are clashing but there is not a day that goes by when she is not being rude.. she insults me, calls me ugly (even when people say I'm pretty right in front of her or get compliments) she makes up stories about my life for example she would say "no guy has ever liked you or will ever like you" and that is FAA ARR from true because i have dated ALOT of guys and had plenty of guys that liked me... she is the one who has never had a guy like her.. but yet she always wants to put me at her level... I try to ignore her but she doesnt stop.. Most of my friends are working this summer and are going to uni (im taking a year off) and she constantly says how "i have no friends" and that I dropped out of school.. and all that, when in fact i do and have not dropped out of school... like I'm sick of hearing her made up lies its like she lives off making assumptions about my life... and the thing about it is i cant even bring friends over cause she is SOOO embarrassing.. what should i do?? why does she act this way towards me?? she even acts that way towards my mother... she tried to choke my mom, threated to kill me... has she lost her mind?? and my mom continues to spoil her and give her attention as if none of this happened... when shes on the phone with her friends she talks about me saying "ugh my sister is so annoying shes 17 and doesnt act her age blah blah.. "

Answer 1

YOUR YOUNGER SiiSTER iIS JEALOUS OF YOU... AND ii KNO iiF YOU TOLD HER THAT SHE WOULD LAUGH iiN YOU FACE. BT DEEP DOWN iiNSiiDE SHE KNOWS iiTS TRUE. SHE'S PROBLEY JEALOUS BECAUSE YOUR PRETTY, DATiiNG, AND OLD ENOUGH TO DRiiVE. ii THiiNK YOU SHOULD MAKE HE FEEL LiiKE YOUR FRiiEND.. (A BEST FRiiEND) BEFORE THE SUMMER iiS OVER SPEND LOTS OF TiiME GETT'iiN TO KNOW HER BETTER..(TAKE HER TO THE MALL, MOViIES, AND OUT TO EAT)....{MY TRU ADViiCE: iiF SHE THREATENS TO KiiLL YOU OR CHOKES YOUR MOM AGAiiN YOU STOP HER!!! iiF ii WERE YOU ii'D WHiiP HER  ONE GOOD TiiME!! AND AS FOR HER PUTTiiN HER HANDS ON HER OWN MOTHER, SHE NEEDS TO BE SHOWN TOUGH LOVE}

Answer 2

She could be wanting attention. Maybe she's just doing this because she doesn't feel like you are paying enough attention to her, and this is her way of letting you know that.

Answer 3

I think she's just jealous of you. Take the high road, when she says these things, ignore them. You know better. Just trust me, right now she's at an awkward and immature time, and she does it to make herself feel better, and she's aggravated because she has her own problems to take care of that she is pushing aside. You could always take her to a counselor. But just deal with it, maybe you could get a job so you don't have to be home so often. Don't bring your friends over, and if you do, just tell her to stop or to go away or say "Shoo fly".  

Answer 4

You two should go talk to a councelor or those people who can help.

Answer 5

She is def. jealous of you!!!

Answer 6

she could have a mental disorder, just wants to seek attention, or is a compulsive liar, either way, i would suggest a psychologist to get deeper into the situation, you never know, it could be something more.  

Answer 7

Well, it sounds like you all need to be on an episode of Maury! But seriously, your sister sounds as if something is deeply bothering her. She may be lashing out at you and your mom because she doesnt feel good about herself.  That is often the problem.  I dont know what to tell you honestly because If your mom cant control her your surely not gonna be able to!! Now personally....I would probably kick her little *** one good time and dare her to act up again! But thats just me! Hey, sometimes turning the other cheek doesnt work! start callin her out like she does you. If you find the right button to shut her down she wont be so quick to try you anymore in fear that you will put her on front street! and if that doesnt work....kick her little ***! lol J/K Violence is never the answer! get her some counseling...and ur mom needs some too! h**l all of you need counseling to resolve this issue!