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Question

How can I get my boyfriend and I to stop fighting? ME and him have something to argue about everyday. I don't know how to make it stop. He's not great at communicating. What's a good way to get a boyfriend to get better communication? i love him with all my heart and will do anything for him, but he doesn't seem the same way back, even though I know he's trying. People can't just transform. But I would like him to get better communication skills. I just need some advice here on how to get him to start conversation. Help?

Answer 1

It's very difficult to get a person to change. It sounds like you have a basic incompatibility. Get used to it. It will only get worse the longer you stay together.

Answer 2

Just don't get him to change with s*x.

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Answer 3

When you are living together without being married, these things are going to happen.  Since he has no commitment, he will continue to use you in any way he wishes.  It may not be fair, but that is the mess you have gotten yourself into.

Answer 4

you start and then you listen...

and listen good.

Answer 5

It could be his attitude, he probably has a negative attitude towards you, and he needs to change that negative attitude, because as long as he has that negative attitude, you two aren't going to be able to discuss anything without it turning into a urinating contest, I had the same problem like your boyfriend had with my wife I had such a negative attitude towards her and she told me about my Negative attitude and I had change that

Answer 6

Heeyyyy wait a second...that's not a s*x question!!  You tricked me!  No advice for you!

Answer 7

its simple move on find someone else new and i say this cuz if there is NO communication in any relationship its not worth tryin for you two just seem like you dont click is why sry probably not what you wanted to know but its true....take care and good luck

Answer 8

the best thing to do is to not bombrush him and try to force him to talk... instead let him relax and then ask him to sincerely tell you how he feels... most women try and force things out of us men which causes us to fold and put up an even bigger wall...