s*x- What the h**l should I do...I need your help!!!!

Question

OK here is the thing. I have been with my bf for many many years now. He is the only guy I have ever had s*x with. And he has been with 3 girls before me. I love him with all of my heart, but I am dying to know what it would be like to be with other people. What should I do? And would I be wrong if I went behind his back and did it? Or just always leave it a mystery? Anyone ever been in this situation?

Answer 1

I have been with my husband and another guy besides my husband. s*x is so so so much better with some one you love. When you have s*x with some one you don't love, it's just s*x. When you have s*x with the one you love, it's intimacy. Intimacy is so much better than just s*x.

Answer 2

dont cheat, you dont want to be know as a s***k. if you want to fool around just let him know you want to see other people. hopefully you wont regret that decision!

Answer 3

If your relationship with you bf is a committed, loving trusting relationship... why take a chance on loosing him and destroying what you have together? Yes, I do think it would be wrong to go behind his back. Put yourself in his shoes...how would this make you feel if HE were the one feeling like this?...Think about it...

If you decide to cross that bridge and sleep with someone else you are taking a very big chance in exposing yourself to STD's among other things...Trust me, the grass isn't always greener on the other side.

Answer 4

Its pure curiosity. s*x is best when with someone you love. I have been with my bf for 2 years now and have had curiosity as well, but they are just curiosities, nothing more.  

Answer 5

You're young, he was your first, and you only live once. It's completely understandable that you want to explore your sexual options but there are two things to remember.

1) Your boyfriends feelings. You don't want to cheat on him. If you feel the desire to seek s*x/companionship elsewhere, the right thing to do would be to break it off first.

2) Safety - You don't want to jump on the next guy that looks your way. Pick your next partner wisely and make sure he has something to more to offer than just s*x. basically, don't start sleeping around.

Answer 6

Yeah you would be wrong if you cheated on him! How wouldn't you? IF your not happy then leave the relationship. If you love him you wouldn't want to go as far as cheating on him.  And remember what comes around goes around.  

Answer 7

That's called cheating. You sound like a CLASSY girl. /sarcasm

Answer 8

i think that it would be very wrong if you did it behind his back.  I have done it with my most recent ex when we were going out and i know can't think if doing it with anyone else.  I think if you really love him, you won't have s*x with anyone else, but him.

Answer 9

I have only ever had s*x with one other man, and i have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now.

I use to think the same i wonder if it would be better etc....

but i have now grown out of it, so don't cheat because you will never forgive yourself!!!

Answer 10

Never been in this situation but a few friends have and things like swinging,open relationships, swapping, and threesomes worked out great even if it is a one time thing