SH0ULD I MOVE OR STAY??

Question

Well me and my mom have aloootttt of problems.

We are takeing counceling but its still the same....

She wants to send me to placement (group home)

But i can move to my grandmothers house.....[dads mom]

She is pretty wealthy.....

if i move ill have my own room , cell phone , computer,

money, go shopping , eat out alot,

& i'd get to be there for all the family parties....

and at my moms....

we live in a 1 bedroom house (3 people)

the house is sloppy [boxes everywhere]

she never buys me things

theres no computer no cell phone

no eating out, no money .

but i do get to do w/e i want

i drink and smoke alot here w/ out getting caught

but the bad thig about moving is that....

my grandpa is really strict & grumpy (hes old)

i wont be able to drink & smoke pot

as offten as i'd like..

& id have to leave all my friends,

& the hood i grew up in

id be living about more than an hour away!

what should i do??

any GOOD advice..........

Answer 1

Sounds like you need a change of scene any way.  A little discipline wouldn't hurt and If he is that old he will be going to bed early anyway.  But make sure you don't disrespect either your mom or your grand parents.  Try the new scene and if it doesn't work out you can always move back.  Just don't burn any bridges.  You might also find that you don't have it as bad as you think,  Or not!

good luck