SHOULD I GIVE THEM THE PASSWORD?

Question

I came to london to study two years ago. this 2 year fees and rent etc . took my parents whole life saving. i have failed in almost every subject.but my parents think their son is one of the toppers. back in my country everybody in society knows that this family"s boy went abroad. on short i am deceiving everyone.now there is situation rise that my parents are asking for the password of my uni account for my personal details of my study.THE BANK FROM WE HAVE TAKEN THE LOAN IS ASKING FOR MY PROGRESS REPORT whatt should i do now . i feel like i should die because my mother and father are both heart patients.what should i do.where should i go. if something happened to them! idintt feel like living ,,,,realy

Answer 1

By being deceiving you have hid behind a lie and it is only right that your parents know the truth. You are right, it was their savings and their hops for you that you have let go astray.

Answer 2

NO? Big mistake if you give your password out. is personal and leave it like that.Have a living will done and let them know what is what. or a proxy for your personal affairs.

Answer 3

no but you should probably use this opportunity to tell your parents that you won't be staying in London to study any longer.

obviously your parents are having finanical stress bc of your tuition fee and boarding fee; and you are not passing ... so what's the point of staying in london wasting more money if you aren't gonna make it back with passing grades.

the longer u stay the more they will have to borrow and the deeper the hole they will be digging. if you stop your studies in london, and be honest with them, at least they will not be put into further financial stress.

let them know that you are sorry to disappoint them and that if school is not your thing then you will be getting a job and pay them back. you can't lie anymore bc you cannot afford to. be honest and pack your bag and then go home to your parents.