SHOULD I LET HER BACK INTO MY LIFE?

Question

okay heres the story! i knew this girl since elementary school all the way up into middle school we stopped talking in 8th grade i seriously forgot why i think it was cuz she was jealous of a friendship me and this girl had. okay so after that when i was in 9th grade she made my life a living h**l she cranked called me everyday and i mean everyday i told her just to get a life and leave me alone. well she cranked called me for 2 years straight. and finally my dad decided to change our phone number. when she did crank call me back then all we did was talk c**p to each other back and fourth i said fine if u want to kick my a$$ meet me here. just so she'll leave me alone. and she never met me anywhere. okay so today for the first time in 10 years she some how remembered my home address. and sent me a letter saying how shes sorry what happened back then and hoping we can talk again she is 24 now and so am i. she has 2 kids like myself and shes married. can i trust this person in my life again. I'm afraid if things dint work out what if she does this again. i do forgive people in my life i just dont forget. she looks like a decent person. and she left her phone number. what do u think i should do? thank u to those who took the time to read this.

Answer 1

call her from a pay phone so she won;t get your number, while you talk analyze the sincerity of what she wrote in the letter, if she seems sincere enough call her from a regular phone

Answer 2

I think you should leave the past in the past. Those who don't know their past, are doomed to repeat it...how ever you know your past and I don't think you should trust her.  

Answer 3

She is now 24 I doubt very much that she's going to crank call you at this age...if you feel like you want to reconnect with her as a friend then call her but if you feel you don't want to go down that road again then don't bother....by the way if you do call her use *67 to block your number she won't be able to see your number that way it will come up PRIVATE CALLER.

Answer 4

i read the whole thing that is kinda sad..

i hope that dont happen to me..

but it was childish of her to prank call you

oh so umm yeah you should give her a chance and trust her

everybody changes over years and she probably has gotten mature and relized she was childish

why would she do that again if she has kids??

she has to be a grown up right..??

so she has to act like one..

trust her just get back with her and stuff dont be so uneasy...

just chill..

Answer 5

I think that you should call to see what she has to say.

you can start judging the attitude by the conversation .

if not she will keep trying and trying

There is nothing wrong with a phone call at all.

Besides she is a old friend.