SHOULD I STAY..OR SHOULD I GO?

Question

there were times when i get tired of things.......i wish to go back to the time i hadn't met him. so that i would not have experience nor a single clue out painful to ne cheated and lied.......

i wanna vanished but then again, i realized that i was born strong,so im must be........yet..sometimes i wanna be weak and dumb even just for once....so ,as i can completely forget for what he have done.............

i love him..........unconditionally............... still he never changed. i do not feel any security from him...got no peace of mind.............. but i do really love him.................God knows...BUT I JUST CAN'T TAKE IT ANYMORE.............for 5 years in relationship with him.............. i guess i have to let him go.............Maybe he is not the right man for me and deserved to have this kind of love i gave to him...........

Answer 1

it sounds like you've already decided..

Answer 2

You would face more consequences if you stayed with this guy ,,,, If he felt about you the way he should then he wouldn't dream of leaving you ,,,,, 49 and 1/2  out of every  50 guys you meet will be losers users and abusers ,,,, To a girl a guy can be a thick novel or a long running series on TV ,,, To a guy a girl is just a chapter in that novel or one episode in that series ,,,, You are spinning your wheels and going no where fast ,,,,  It sounds like you are trying to figure out whether you are still hung up on this guy or not ,,,,  

It doesn't matter now one way or the other because evidently he's not around to worry about it anyway ,,,, Why throw good effort after bad ,,,, He's gone and gone of his own volition ,,,, You need to come to this realization and move on in your life ,,,,  He's by far not the only fish in the pond and the guy evidently doesn't seem like he's worth the heart ache and effort ,,,, Pick yourself up and dust yourself off ,,,,, This is the first day of the rest of your life ,,,, You can start new and fresh ,,,, Get your mind on constructive things instead of dwelling in the past ,,,,

You can't get time back or relive what's already taken place ,,,,  Think about achieving  different goals and start moving in a positive direction ,,,, Forget this guy ,,,, He's in the past now so leave him there ,,,, You don't need this kind of drama in your life because it's negative and non productive ,,,,  There's some one out there for you some where ,,,, All you have to do is just find him and he's most likely going to come trouble and problem free ,,,,  //

Answer 3

You're being extremely over dramatic. You're stressing over something that could be dealt with common sense. It's hard letting go but you can't mope around forever. It's too late to regret the love you gave him. Just get over it.

Answer 4

if its been 5 years tryin to change him let him go. I kno its gonna be really hard.

Answer 5

That's the best thing to do,,let him go and try to forget him.If he did it once he gonna do it again and you're try o forgive him again.it will never stop,always remember, a cheater is always be a cheater.he's take advantage of your kindness.start a new life with someone who deserve your love...