SHOULD I WASTE MY TIME: Will she BLOW ME OFF?

Question

So she contacted me first online (we had never met) and i got her number, waited a few days and called her. I told her id be on campus at 5 on a certain day, and we're getting dinner. She said just call her when im on campus. I SAID: "Just meet me outside (the name of her dorm) at 5 on monday." She agreed, and we hung up. I then poked fun at her on myspace making fun of the sound of her voice. She messaged me back insisting it was her suprised voice, AND instant messaged me saying it was my nervous voice! I replied "IDK...its still up in the air until monday outside ur dorm....see you at 5." Do you think she'll show? OR WAS her saying "just call me when your on campus" that bad of a sign? Before she said that i hadnt told her WHERE to meet yet tho, so maybe thats why. Will she blow me off?

Answer 1

There's no telling if she didnt wait for the answer i'd say that she is just going to blow you off i wish you good luck though.

Answer 2

She will blow you off. Go to the local strip joint and have some fun instead.

Answer 3

I don't think she'll blow you off. Maybe she's just nervous about meeting you for the first time. She's probably thinking of everything that could go wrong. Like, what if I trip/fall, say the wrong thing, talk too much, talk too little. Meeting someone for the first time can be real nervracking. I'm sure that everything will go great between you two! Good luck! =)

Answer 4

Poking fun is self-serving and uneventful. I'll bet she is 55. Have a nice dinner.  

Answer 5

desperate. gross.  

Answer 6

first of all, may i say,   yeah i know you may be sick of hearing people telling you "That's not safe!" but this girl could be the type where the buys her a flower, goes over there, and he ends up wasting his time for someone who blow him off. The chances of being blown off are actually neutral and high at the same time. For this reason being, i think you ask yourself these questions:

1) Would she actually respond to your messages?

2) Would a girl ever say "call me when u get on campus".... and blow you off? Maybe but NOT LIKELY!

Okay. She could possibly be very busy, so keep that in mind... and maybe you're just nervous, but dude, relax... don't worry about being blown off until it actually happens..

next time, try to meet this girl IN PERSON, when you VERY FIRST MEET HER... not only will it tell you what type of person she is, but if you don't like each other there won't be any mean letters to your e-mail/chatroom... so yeah. next time go to a pub, or the beach, or go to the mall, and start up a gentle conversation (not immediatly though) to a girl your age!

Answer 7

LoL its a good possibility that she will...Why did u poke fun at her voice? guys do that to me all the time and honestly i usually blow them off because just seeing as how u guys just met u shouldnt joke around with her if u dont fully kno her personality...

Anyway, dont take my word for it because every girl is different...She might show and was just letting u kno to call her beforehand....maybe u should'nt take things so seriously...

Answer 8

i doubt shell blow you off maybe shes just nervous or doesnt know what to say ??

hope i helped :D x

Answer 9

I think that she'll probably show... There's nothing implying that she won't, really.

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