SHOULD WE BACK TOGETHER ?

Question

Me and my wife are seperated for 2 year .We have twins boys.reson to broke up : coming home late couple times.She is in new york now and i live in phoenix.She has hard time to take care the boys.AND SHE IS ASKING BACK TOGETHER NOW.....

Please I need help to decide....

Answer 1

Yes, if you still love your wife and family. It seems like she may really need your help and just wants you back in her life. I say go back home and make things work. And why were you going home late, did she have a reason for the split???

Answer 2

Only you should know if this is what is best. If you think that you could "fix" things with her and have a good marriage, then do it. But if it's only because she' is having money problems....that is NEVER a good reason to get back together. Think of your kids...how would they feel if they saw you fighting all the time? I don't know your situation, but YOU need to really think on what is best for everyone...no one can decide for you. Good luck to you.

Answer 3

i truly think that that is not up to any of us to decide. is this something YOU are willing to try agian? do you think that things has sencirly changed? do you think you owe it to your boys? if you atr truly uncertain..try vacationing and just spending time with her. you wouldnt want to rush into things to quicly and just make a choice. you have to be sure that its the right one. and did she just call you up and say heii hon, lets get bakk 2gether? the answer is up to you. no 1 can say yes or no. we dont know what you have been through together. if you truly deep down in you heart think that your ready/..than yy not? and if the only reason she wants to get bakk with you is because she needs help with the twin boys, but u think your not ready try taking them of her hands for a bit? but this question...you need to answer yourself =]

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Answer 4

You can't go back together for convenience sake. You both have to love each other or any marriage you have will be wrong and won't work. You need to give the twins a good real home not a fake one. Was your coming home late due to the fact you cheated? Was it neglect to your responsibilities. You didn't give a lot of background but I will tell you this. If love isn't in your life, forget it.

Answer 5

you cant decide that quickly but it depends on whether or not you love her...if you do yes if you don't, dont

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Answer 6

If you don't want to go back with her then hire a nanny for the boys.

Answer 7

Its up too you, you have to think about who will move to who, will you be able to give her the time, take care of your boys, most important will you be able to get on with your wife? if your willing to give it a go then go for it, it will be good for your boys, best of luck.

Answer 8

I think it would be good if you got back together maybe try any of you to come home earlier/ change your schedule.