SHY GUYS - are you indecisive when a girl likes you?

Question

He's a shy guy and we've been spending time this summer. When we're 1-1, he'll be outgoing and play the "you have my pillow, gimmie"/tickle game. He would ocassionaly ask for movie nite and eventually when i would leave he would grab and cuddle with me; even hint at a massage and would give each other back massages. He started inviting me to his social events w. friends (weekend stuff) and asked to watch him play basketball. Even took care of him when was sick. This week I've never felt so close to him. He shared about his upbringing, was w. him and helped him w. shopping. Last I saw him, brought him food for him @ work and was very grateful and was CHESSING.

NOW I texted him tonight asking what he was doing and it took him 2 hours to respond back...not his typical self where he would text right away. I asked if he wanted to go barhopping and he just responded "where" and i said i wasn't sure and hejust said, "haha". I kept drunk texting him 2x that night and never responded back... WHAT HAPPENED?? It's like he's switched again... :(

Answer 1

One thing I've learned as I've tended to go for the shy guys, is that it gets to a point where you do need to let the guy chase you.  It's so hard being the girl, when the guy just sits back and does nothing.  I'd say give him a week, and then text him if you don't hear from him.  If he doesn't give you a for sure answer about when you're next getting together, it may be time to move on.