SHY SHY SHY, HOLY F***, WHY?!?

Question

So ok, i am SHY, i dont know WHY. I started my first job earlier, met couple of people etc. But for some reason i cant act normal by ladies (WTF IS WRONG W ME?) Theres this girl i met, Greets me everytime she sees me, knows my name, smiles at me, for some reason the words dont wanna come out, last week she called out my name and said Hi, she was on the other side smiled, all i did was smile.... She comes by and says "hey why u acting weird not talking to me??????" am like "i just said hey??!?!?"

than i think to myself, what the h**l did i just say omg?i dont think she'll ever speak to me agin.........and i think i might be falling for this chick.

Help, :(.

Answer 1

Just have to say...your main question got me to laugh a little (i'm easily amused but oh well) pretty clever... haha

Anyways...

A lot of guys clam up around girls they like and the ones that don't are usually over confident. A lot of girls actually find nervous guys cute, me being one of them. It's okay if you're nervous for first little bit...it'll smooth out. Just start up a normal conversation with her, talk about her interests and what she likes...get a natural flow going and you're bound to have things in common. Once you get to that common ground you'll have things to joke about and connect to her with. Don't over think too much because it doesn't help anything. You sound like a pretty cool guy so just stay positive.

Best of luck :)

Answer 2

just have the mind state i'm a mothafaukin playa nicca mac11 down ya throat and thats to spray a nicca

Answer 3

lol dont worry I am so shy aswell, I have no idea why and I always stumble on my words and say stupid things to guys I like.

your not the only one who is like this - hopefully that is a lil consoling for you to know.

just gotta learn to laugh at yourself. if the girl is attracted to you, it wont matter what you say, she'll still like ya.

eventually as you get to know people better and start to feel closer to them and trust them it is easier to open up. It just takes us shy people a little longer than others but SHY people are still cool!!!

Answer 4

Bite the bullet...the next time you see her, go straight up to her and tell the truth (chicks dig that).  Just say, "Sorry I didn't speak the other, but I am really shy and didn't know what to say"  If she is interested in you, that will melt her heart (you'll see it in her eyes, don't be afraid to make eye contact).

Ask her out, by saying something like.  "I would like to talk more to you, why don't be meet up for coffee and a chat".

See how you go, you sound really sweet, just build up you confidence by being kind to yourself and truthful to others...Good luck Tiger!

Answer 5

You sound like a normal guy. Just speak your mind and you'll do fine.

Answer 6

You just have to remember something... You're a stud, and she want's a piece of you! Seriously, I had that same problem until I realized that I'm pretty attractive, I'm charming, and I've got a great personality. You need to realize the same thing! it makes talking to girls a lot easier.