SHY!Pls help!Ill also help u!?

Question

I am very shy!I cant speak!U can only speak at home!When I step out of the house!I feel that every one is looking at me and making fun of me!I really have no friends!:( I really need friends!I cant join clubs cuz my parent are busy!Pls help...

Answer 1

so what is it that you have to lose. just open up. mail me back as oi can help if you need

Answer 2

I was like that and still am in some ways.

I still don't have that many friends but have learnt to live life without them.

I read books, love to shop and paint.

I must say I do have more friends now though than a few years ago well what you need to do is this.

You need to say to yourself when your are in public like at a mall or something that people are not looking at me and even if they are its none of my business unless they come and talk to me personally.

Smile to yourself and don't look down at the ground. Maybe you can join some clubs at school or college to hang around.

Another thing I did was I took salsa dance lessons for a couple of months it helped me loosen up.

All the best its not that hard.

Answer 3

hii im 14 im really shy too ..i dont really go to clubs but yyou can make friends in social networks like bebo or facebook just make sure you dont meet wierdoes ...i like hold my head down when i get near gangs or be really quiet in big groups but when you meet people and hang round you will get more comfortable so try socialising a bit ...xhope i helped x