SINGLE MOTHERHOOD by choice. What do you think of this?

Question

My best friend Jamie Eve had a HOMEBIRTH with her son James Frederik. She is a 22 year old brunette ( white ) who is very pretty and has a hot body. She decided she wants to be a YOUNG SINGLE MOM especially after she ended her relationship.

But she didn´t obtain the support of her very rich family on her wish of become a SINGLE MOM and have a HOMEBIRTH. The worst that happened to Jamie is that her uncle accused her to be a "s**t in a bikini that was searching for a male to impregnate her". This shows the "excellent education" of her very wealthy family.

Although this problems, Jamie never change her mind and put more emphasis in her wish to become a single mom and planning a homebirth. Four days ago, James Frederik came to the world at Jamie's home but although the joy of motherhood, Jamie is VERY SAD because her family didn´t want to meet her son.

Jamie is planning to use her fortune to open a business independently of her family and raise her son as her only man. SUPPORT JAMIE!!!!

Answer 1

I thnk being a single mother is a lonely and exhausting business.  children need fathers as well as mothers.  I don't envy her.

Answer 2

I think that every child needs to know their father.    

If she is using her fortune to open a business then its not independent of her family.      The fortune came from them right?

Answer 3

what do i think? I think she is as dumb as a box of rocks, and here comes another momma's boy to ruin another your girs life.

Answer 4

Great another messed up kid with one parent. Who will find it hard to juggle a new business an kid.

Answer 5

Jamie does what most, if not all, voluntarily single mothers do: she prepares herself financially and emotionally for what is to come. This is why children raised by voluntarily single mothers fare better than those who have been left in the lurch.

Answer 6

I am ready to be a paid remote Godfather to James Frederik, if Miss. Jamie Eve is ready to pay $500 a month.  I will be the male role model to the kid.  $500 a month goes a long way as I live in India.

Answer 7

good luck to her. she sounds pretty brave. i feel bad for her about her family though. they don't sound very nice.

Answer 8

um ok

Answer 9

'What do I think?'-- After reading your full question I am assured that I really couldn't care less about this.

That story is not uncommon, however, I doubt a rational man the same age would make the same choice.

Answer 10

Why do put emphasis one Home birth and single mom?

Are you trying to prove a point that i choose to be to dumb to realize?

anyhow if this story is true..then i am very sad for your friend.

but...she will learn that sometimes blood means nothing.

my family that i am with now...only my siblings are related to me by blood...the rest are no relation to me at all. and they are family.

I would never ask my biological family for help...i most likely wouldnt get it anyhow.

Answer 11

I was my mothers first at age 21 and a second a  couple years later. She supported us without a mate until we were 13 or so. And no help from the government AND not much help from her parents. I believe she's making the best choices considering her options. She'll need some good friends and an active life to make it all work out.

Good luck to her, I send my best wishes. Make sure to tell her to never give up on her children for some guy EVER.

Answer 12

I am sure Jamie would not want this sort of information broadcast if she did she may have done it herself. She may need a hand with James Frederik so maybe stop broadcasting her business and go and support her.

Answer 13

Bold. But at only 22, I wonder if she has the life experience to raise a child as well as she would had she waited for a few years. This parenthood thing is tough and not to be taken lightly. I do hope that Jamie's family comes around. The relationship between her and her parents must be pretty strained for them to have such a strong aversion to meeting her child. If you're an emotionally healthy human, it takes just  a few moments to look into an infant's eyes and be completely smitten. h**l, that probably goes for newborn animals as well.

I'm also glad to hear that money won't be an issue. That only makes an already tough job that much tougher. I hope that her "fortune" is not dependant on whether the family approves or not and she already has this fortune. It could get S****y real fast if that were the case.

Tell her good luck and maybe pick up a book or two, one can never know too much about raising a child.