I posted this question a few days ago:
What would you do if this happened to you....?
Ok, my husband has not been the kindest person to me and one of our repeat issues is that he says one thing and does another. In other words, he never keeps his word to me.
So, this morning my cell phone rings. It's him calling... I say hello and he doesn't say anything back to me, but all I hear is him talking... ABOUT ME... "I told her tonight.... but it isn't going to happen" and "She wants this dog I told her she can have, but I'm not going to let her have him"... things like that. Then after 20 minutes of this blah-blah-blah he noticed HIS PHONE WAS CONNECTED WITH MINE. He says "Oh S---" and hangs up.
Now, normally he calls me in the morning to say good morning, make sure we are all up and moving, but NO DAILY CALL TODAY. So I did my business as usual, waited for him to call and when he didn't call I decided to CALL HIM. In the midst of our conversation I mentioned in response to something he said "Yeah, I heard you talking about that this morning with your co-worker". He became VERY quiet, asked in a round about way what else I heard, but I didn't tell him.
So... what would YOU do with this??? Let him hang and wonder? Use it to MY advantage? Oh... what to do, what to do!
And the last answer from SS says "Im paranoid".
Now my understanding of paranoid... from a DICTIONARY is: Exhibiting or characterized by extreme and irrational fear or distrust of others: a paranoid suspicion that the phone might be bugged.
So, I emailed "SS" to ask why she thinks I am "paranoid". and these are her answers:
Message: oh.. and yes... so what if your husband only told you certain things to make you happy? at least he is trying to keep you happy and that's what that matters.. it's not abou the dog or about the two of you going out... you guys probably need to sit down and talk... but before that, don't strangle him with too many demands.. Hope that clears up my "You're plain paranoid."
Message: Hi... Yes I said you're paranoid about this whole situation because your husband probably was just having a conversation with his fren and so he let out his feelings.. it's not his fault that you hear his conversation since the call was connected... how can you expect him to make you his 'daily calls' when such a thing happened? Give him some space...
What would you have done if you we're me with the first question... and how do you feel about the answers "SS" sent to me when I asked her why I'm paranoid... I'm not hearing things... it is a fact what I heard... explain.
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