hi can anyone advise me plz,i have 4 children of which 3 have grown up and left home,3 years ago i met a man of my dreams after being togeather 12 months his 10 yr old daughter came to live with us due to the fact she lied to us telling us her mums boyfreind tryed touching her after getting the police involved and finding out it wasnt true her mum disowned her,since living with us 2 years ago she thieved from us,lied to us buiiyed at school,phoned childline again lied to them and even told the school she was being starved and beaten and we had social services around at the house and after a chat and a house inspection they closed the case.we recently married 4 weeks ago and things have got worse her lies and thieving have caused us to put camearas in the kitchen as she swears blind it wasnt her.she constantly sneaks around the house listening into conversations,i feel really hurt i found a letter she wrote saying she thinks im her daughter and she is trying to rule my life i couldnt believe a 10 year old could be so awful i took her on as my own and this is what i get.i dont know what to do i dont know wheather to call it a day and let her and her dad move on.she tells me she wants go bk to her mum but her mum as totally disowned her.she as even sneaked our pc on a website that her mum is on to try send messages we found the passwords and she still denied it.shes getting really cheeky and is changing so much,althought i dont think it makes any difference im a white lady and my husband is full carribean also his daughter.she as also been told bout putting dirty washing bk in the wardrobe but still continues to do it,she even put used sanitry towels in there,and even after a shouting at a few months later does it again plz,plz can anyone advise i feel so useless.
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