YES....azn parents -_- what on earth are you going to do with them? my parents...*sighhhh* well on top of that. i have a ton of chinese friends and even THEIR parents aren't close to being as bad as mine. i mean my dad and mom say i'm old enough to work and give me these large annoying responsibilties, like wroking at my dad's office.(etc) but they wont let me hang out, or anything. well my parents always said that when they were younger, they had to suffer jsut to give us a better life and say how spoiled we are and how we get to live a better life and all. on top of that, they say that when they were young, they never had any friends to play with since they were always working.(it's a different time period for me -_- so shouldnt i get to live differently. and on top of that they say they want a better life for us. isnt this kinda of contradicting it?) -_-ll typical chinese parents tactics to use against their own kid's arguements. ( and yes..those were only the few so called tactics my parents use againt me. i'll list out the rest after i finish with this paragraph.) i havent even been to one bday party ever since i was born and i knew most of my friends for more then 8 years. im 14 -_-ll yea...im like a freshmen in hs already -_-ll and i could already tell in the future that things will definitely not change. and nope...they already made it clear that i'm not allowed to get a boyfriend til after i graduate hs (which in my case is beyond ridiculous since the hs im going to is well...has a lot of boys and girls in it ;D)my parents are stubborn. trust me i know. if things dont go their way, they'll find a way to make it go their way. i'm so serious...i cant take it anymore. they say that they dont want me to suffer like they did when they were younger but I'm suffering now under all this mentallity. havent people ever heard of the fact that some people can go haywire due to this type of treatment and pressure?
~ahh..yes. i will now tell you their other tactics:
-for school--> they say i go to school for my own education and i'm not doing it for them but im doing it for myself, for my own future. (i have to say, their just ssaying that cuz i'm getting good grades in school. but if i didnt get the good graades, i beg to differ their responsed)
-hanging out--> "its dangerous there! dont you noe that there are rapists running around? havent you been listening to the news recently? and what if something happened to you? what do you think that would do to us? anyways. i dont care if your friends do things that are different from what you do. you live under my roof so idc. you must follow my rules.
-when i throw a fit (silent treatment, etc[not serious stuff...i wouldnt dare -_-ll])--> "do you see how hard we work and you guys dont ven appreciate it! all of you are so spoiled. we take so good care of you guys and all that you guys want is more stuff!!! look at us. we are at the brink of breaking down. and on top of that we dont need your attitude to drag us down even more. (here comes the threatening part) if this is the way you are going to be, i will take away your comp, phone, mp3, etc [all privileges -_-ll]
and now-->
tactics i've tried to use on them but failed:
-try talking to them
-asking them to go after being super duper good for an entire week or more
-mega respect
i cant take it anymore...i dont want my hs years to be like this. more over. i already have the feeling...my college years wont be any different. trust me, my parents will faind a way to make me go to a college near home....-_-
like i said...i cant take it anymore....help me please
ahh yes...and on top of that..they always say family first before friends....uhhh, why would you need friends when you already have family? -_- and....family is alays there for you but friends arent -_- (which particularly isnt true;P)
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