SURVEY - Would it be wrong of me to send an Ex a wedding present ?

Question

Before we start this isn't aimed at you Jill.x

I found out via Facebook that a girl I had an affair with 2 years ago got married on Saturday to the fella she cheated on with me.

When we split she said if she got married she'd invite me to the wedding which she obviously didn't so should I send her a Card/Present to show I'm happy for her ?

Answer 1

No, why not send her hubby a map of her erogenous zone's

Answer 2

no leave well alone

she has moved on and so have you

Answer 3

Not wrong, just odd and it might perturb her.

Answer 4

No I wouldn't bother but it is nice that you can be happy for her.  I am sure she also wishes you happiness. Everything happens for a reason.

Answer 5

That is a tough question really, I am still pals with 2 my ex but don't think I would in case upset their partner....it really depends if you are doing it because you are happy or you just want to remind her she didn't invite you.......I would take time to think about it first....maybe best to leave alone or it could make you think too much.. you know what you should do yourself..Can be a shock when hear an ex got married  as I finished with a guy before and we remained pals but did shock me when heard he was getting married also but I never sent a card..But we do talk maybe 1 or 2 times a year to catch up.  good luck.

Answer 6

...are you happy for her? If so yeah, why not send her a card.

Answer 7

Put  a mousetrap in a beautiful box........the ******..........x

Answer 8

Yeah put a bomb in it''?

Answer 9

It's not necessary, however it would be a gracious gesture.

Answer 10

I would not waste my money or time doing this.

Answer 11

a simple congrats card would show maturity and good manners. thats if she no's youve not forgot about her! i wouldnt send a present, it would prob suggest you were trying to put the guilt on her for not inviting you.  

Answer 12

No ..   leave it ...  the best man obviously won  !!    lmao   xx

Answer 13

I would determine whether it would disturb the fiancee first! It you think it wouldn't or if you could ask someone close to her. The go for it!