SURVEY how many mothers have seen?

Question

How many moms have seen your son's private area after puberty ? please be honest and why did you see it ? I ask this because one of my best friends just told me that she has seen her son a lot .

Answer 1

cuz he's my son,and i walked in on him....if you wonder why its cuz i can

Answer 2

It's still your child regardless of age.  The answer depends on how open and honest the parents have been raising their children.

Sure someone who refers to it as "their private area" might get wigged out if you see your sons p***s  (I can't stand it when people do not use biologically correct terms).

But if you've taught your children from a young age that the human body is a remarkable vehicle and that you shouldn't have any shame with your body, then inadvertently seeing your son's p***s isn't a big deal.

My kids are still p*****n and we don't go flashing each other around the house, but my kids are not shy when coming in from the pool to drop their wet suits in the laundry room and then dart upstairs to change.  I'm sure it'll change as their bodies change, but seriously...it's a p***s...not a big deal.

Answer 3

My son is 11 and gets weird about his privacy.. I haven't seen my son since he started bathing himself. I don't think it is right when you are trying to instill respect to them at this age and privacy is really the only thing the kids have ( so they think) we shouldn't violate that . I don't want my son walking in on me so I give him the same back. My husband on the other hand will walk around naked and have no probs with that but that is how he was raised.

Answer 4

shoot my BF is 27 and flashes his parts to everyone lol depends on what kinda relationship you have with your kids

but why does it matter? why would you want to see that?

Answer 5

that is gross I think that is so wrong

Answer 6

well my twins are 13 1/2 and in the midst puberty. I give them their privacy and would never walk in on them. I have seen them naked since puberty though. One time one of them was in the shower and he called me in to check a bump he felt on his forehead. When he opened the shower door I got a little shock as I saw a bunch of pubic hair that wasn't there last time I saw him naked LOL. No biggie, I played it cool and just commented on how he's totally growing up and checked the bump on his head and left.

His twin is a little more private but he's told me he has hair too. They aren't shy about telling me these things, probably because we've had open talks about everything since they were younger.

Answer 7

Well, I'm a girl but...my mother in law has seen my partner's p***s within the past couple years...because he showed her, lol. They have a pretty open family I guess. He had a wierd "lump" down there and when he told her about it, she demanded to see it. When he lived with her I'm sure he also walked around in his boxers, and when guys do that accidents are bound to happen. I don't think it's that big of a deal.