Sad Me and my sister lost our mom?

Question

Today me and my sister lost our mom ,due to health problems

We loved her with all our might .Now my life is going to be hard for me

because my mom is not here to support me,

I am glad That I'm on social security , but I gave my the best love I could ever give, another thing I did before she went is I threw my ouija board away, I don't like to live here anymore it's too hurtful.

it is not good for my mental health , I decided to get some conceling

in these hard times. Right now I feel very lonely here.

I could sure use some comfort and a lot of friends

Answer 1

sorry for ur loss:(

Answer 2

I am sorry for your loss, this is a hardship most of us will bear at sometime in our lives.  I lost my mother some years back, also my father several years previous.  I had been my mother's care provider for 8 years.

I know of your personal loss, and yes, there are times that a counseling session can be very helpful.

Answer 3

The best thing you can do is talk to someone. My 4 neices and nephews lost their mother all at a young age and now i'm coping with the loss of my sister and helping the children with thier mom. Right now i'm taking care of them if you need someone to talk to about stuff let me know. I'm going thru somewhat of the same situation.  

Answer 4

I'm sorry to hear that. my cousins lost their mother because of leukemia and the oldest had to support the younger one (his brother) and on top of that he had to pay for her new car she had just gotten. everything is going to be fine for you two, my cousin made it through, by church and god. you should both try that, church is a beautiful thing and god can help both of you in your paidon'tont feel lonely, never ever, your not.

Answer 5

Clean house.Seriously.MOve furniture around and make it your space for both of you.Buy a couple inexpensive plants and put moms belongings in her room for now.This can be cleared at another time.I lost my mom young and what i learned is the best thing she would want is for me to make the best of everything..

Answer 6

my condolences to you and your sister....

Answer 7

I am so sorry that you lost your beloved Mother.

I went through the same thing when I was 16.  My  Mom died at age of 41 from cancer.

If you keep really busy with school, family and friends it will help some.

It is good that you got rid of that ouija board.  It is of witchcraft.

It would be nice to make a scrapbook with things your Mom said, and what she did.  Put lots of pictures, and stories in it of what she liked to do, painting, drawing, singing, playing music or whatever she liked.  You might even keep a few of her favorite things in it like a scarf or a piece of cloth from her shirt.  You will enjoy this scrapbook the rest of your lives.

Answer 8

im sorry to hear that how old are you both? it doesnt really matter but younger kids and and adults deal with the death of a parent differently i hope you both can pull together and make it though this follow your faith no matter wat it might be this could also help

Answer 9

Although your mum has passed away the love that she had for you and your sister is still there; it will never die. The ouija  board is no loss, talk to your sister and remember the happy times as well as sharing your grief. Don't lock yourself away because the people who care about you will want to comfort you but they won't want to intrude so you need to make yourself available to them. The pain will pass in time but you will treasure the memories of your mum.If I could give you a hug I would.x*x

Answer 10

I am really sorry for you. It is very sad to lose a loved one. I am happy for you that you gave your best love to your mon before she passed away and it should make you feel good too because you did everything you could for her. Put everything in the hands of God and do your best for yourself and your sister.God will take care of the rest if you trust Him

Answer 11

I am so sorry. I have recently made amends with my mother after years of being estranged. I'm very sorry. Feel free to email me.

Don't give up on this life because one is over. You know you need help coping, and don't let anyone tell you to snap out of it. I pray for you, your sister and your family. May you find peace.