Sad teen story.. ur gonna hat this one ... but please help?

Question

well both of my best friends have decided to start dating and well i like thee dude and i know this is just young love but it really hurts cuz ive liked him for 3 years now but just never shared my personal feeling with neither of them... i mean they havnt start dating but they both really like eachother and considered it but omg i have been so pissed of all day and this tops it off. he just called me and told me.... but just give me some girl advice cuz im focused on my school work and stuff not just boys so please dont give me a lecture about that..... thanks so much

-i love me

Answer 1

this happened to me before.  i really liked this guy i was close to, but he was in love with my best friend.  i just started to expand my options by meeting other people.  after a few months, it didn't hurt anymore when he'd confide in me!

don't limit yourself to just him.  you are young -- there are so much more boys out there for you to meet.  if you socialize, who knows?  you might meet the guy who is right for you.

Answer 2

Its a part of the adolecent age, don't worry you'll get over it!

Answer 3

O_o woah, I'm sorry, me not speak that language...

seems a bit like english, but I can't understand it at all, so I think it's some sublanguage.

Ok, I will answer the way I understood it;

It's only your fault. He can't read your mind, so he didn't know.

Also you made no sense at the end- you don't care about boys, but you are so pissed off and want to straighten it out? o.o have you got spilt personalities or something?

Geeze, if I was that boy, I don't think I would date you either- I mean like you need to learn some grammar girl!

Answer 4

If you're gonna be mad at anyone it should be you. You're the one that didn't tell anyone about your feelings. What if he liked you too, but thought you didn't like him because you kept it to yourself? It's not their fault that you didn't tell them. If you would have told them, they probably wouldn't be going out right now.

Answer 5

tell them how you feel

Answer 6

I'm confused... I'm 13 and dating and can focus on my school work and my personal life at the same time without it getting out of control.

Answer 7

This doesnt make any sense at all......can you try again please? they are or arent dating, who call you him or her....

This whole phrase makes no sense at all

"he just called me and told me.... but just give me some girl advice cuz im focused on my school work and stuff not just boys so please dont give me a lecture about that"

Answer 8

hmm sooo

have they or havent they started dating?

Answer 9

k well umm u should.....and then talk.....and i'll call u....just give me ....... okay so......

did that ^ make any sense... i dont think so..

and thats how u sound so please rewrite it.