Sadly i miscarried monday, and tuesday. ?

Question

didn't know but i was pregnant with twins. monday around 11:30, a.m i started to spot. and then it became more, then at 6:30 p.m i started to have contractions. then by 8. p.m i had a miscarriage. i thought it was over. then around 5:30, a.m tuesday, i started to have cramps, then around 10:30 a.m i started having contractions. then by noon, had another miscarriage. i just found out for sure, the 14th of august, then the 18th and 19th, i lost my twins. not sure how far i was between 4 and 6 weeks, where i got my blood test done they said may. i'm so upset. i'm hypo glycemic, and my parents don't think i can carrie a baby, that something will always happen. they said see you can't, that's your body telling that. i want to talk to a doc about that, i really want to be a mommy. but i don't know if is just a unreal, dream.. sorry to say things so heavy, but this is hard, and i know most that read these, have been through a lot the same, just had to vent. thanks.

Answer 1

You have my deepest sympathy.

Answer 2

I am so sorry for your loss. My friend had about 10 miscarriages then finally got pregnant with twins. Your time will come and if your worried about not being able to carry a baby talk to your doctor. Good Luck!  

Answer 3

I'm genuinely very sorry for your loss. Just because you have miscarried once it doesn't mean that you will never be able to have a baby. I know several women who have miscarried but now have beautiful children. Allow yourself time to grieve and then start moving on with your life again. Best wishes.

Answer 4

I'm sure your parents didn't mean to to be so harsh. If everyone who misscarried thought that it was there body telling them they couldn't have a baby we would be missing a lot of smiles in the world. I the best advice to take is from a doctor because they really know best. Sorry about your loss.

Answer 5

I have a question for you, how long after you spotted did you pass the pregnancy? I began miscarrying on Sunday evening and had an ultrasound on Tues that showed it still there, it's Thurs and I don't think it is out yet...what did it look like?

Answer 6

hi first of all im so so sorry about what your going thru.  after i had my son i had 4 miscarriages within my 4 to 6 weeks and now im pregnant again and everything is great. dont worry just bc your hypo glycemic doesnt mean you cant carry a baby i have had it all my life i wish you all the best just pray and relax and see your dr.

Answer 7

Oh My God i am so deeply sorry to hear for your loss,tears came down my face while reading,it reminded me of myself when i had a miscarriage and the feeling that i was feeling,i know how you feel.i had 2 miscarriage back to back at 6 weeks as well,it was horrible..but i want to mention that my sister was told the same thing that she couldn't Carry a baby more than 8 weeks ,and she tried for more than 6 times then she finally gave up,one day when she went to the hospital cause she felted sick and the least that she expected was that she was 4 months pregnant and never knew it..she carried this pregnancy full term,she had her baby and now her son is 10 yrs old very healthy-it was a miracle..for all this saying i mean never give up trying..god bless

Answer 8

Keep telling yourself: everything will happen at the perfect time for my perfect fulfillment.

I know it's hard to see it now, but you will become a mom when it's best for you and your baby and your life!

Answer 9

Never say never!! Talk to your doctor. Your doctor could give you medicine to help you . I am on Prometrium. Dr told me it helps when trying to conceive. Here is what I could find on it for you.

What does progesterone do?

Helps to regulate the menstrual cycle.

Prepares the lining of the uterus for implantation.

Keeps the lining of the uterus thick which is necessary for a successful pregnancy.

Produces a rise in temperature after ovulation, which remains until menstruation occurs.

Creates a nutrient rich environment for the baby by increasing glycogen and arterial blood to the lining of the uterus.

Keeps the uterus from having contractions.

Causes the cervix to thicken and create a mucous plug which prevents bacteria from entering the uterus.

Answer 10

I'm am so sorry, i must be so hard. I'm not sure if you were taking any vitamins of the sort but a month before conception make sure you start taking lots of vitamins so the baby or babies have a healthy environment to grow in and also ask your doc if he/she can put you on progesterone cream until your in your 12th week (i think) ive been told it can help prevent miscarriage.

my condolences again and good luck for the future if you decide you want to try again.

Answer 11

hun low blood sugars didnt cause this

get your self on a set eating schedule and your sugar wont be an issue. blood sugar levels dont cause miscarriage

miscarriages happen for lots of reasons talk to your doctor but be prepared to hear that they dont know why it happened

i have had 3  and i  have a beautiful 5 year old son

i suffer from very low blood sugar  thats controlled by diet

Answer 12

Oh noooooooooooo! I'm so sorry to hear about this, how devestating. I don't know what to say other than you are a strong person and you'll get through this. Good luck to you in the future and don't give up hope, talk to your doctor and see what they have to say about future pregnancies, don't listen to your parents because what they say will only upset you. Much Love!!!

Answer 13

I'm deeply sorry for your loss. I know many women who has the same condition as you and they all have 3 children now. So don't give up. Keep trying. You'll become a mother. I'll pray that God opens your womb and protects your baby through full term. God bless you.

Answer 14

I'm so sorry.

But, hon, that doesn't mean you were pregnant with twins :/