Sag and virgo?

Question

ok so all the astrology sites are telling me that virgo and sags dont last long romantically and we clash and unfortuantely everything they say is true about us but i just need to hear something good...like we will be able to last forever... we love eachother very much and i just want it to work. Is there a chance it can?

Answer 1

I am a Sag but I don't know I hope thats not true..=( thanks for letting me know that but I don't have an answer although I think you shouldn't believe in those

Answer 2

of course there is a chance......but the question is, do you want to work that hard to make it happen?

sag and virgo are not compatible. what it means to be in a non compatible relationship is that every second of every day for the rest of your life you need to do 3 things:

work to make the relationship flow, last and be strong

accept your partner for who they are and what they want to do even if you disagree on what they are doing or why

be willing to sacrafice part of who you are in order to get along with your lover on a day to day basis.

sag is fire and virgo is earth. the two dont work well together. that is a start. fire irritates earth and makes them frustrated and are misunderstood by the earth signs. earth bores fire and makes their skin crawl. they want to jump out a window just to break the routine and monotony of the earth signs everyday lives.

both signs are mutable, which is even worse for the match up. mutable signs are willing to self sacrafice and bend and sway to do whatever their lover wants in order to make things work. BUT they need to be acknowledged for it otherwise they lose faith and feel unloved and misunderstood. when they genuinely don't understand their partner, as you two will learn in time that you don't..... then things fall apart.

all relationships start off pretty good when both parties want to make things work. keep that in mind. oh, and usualy until you move in with someone and live with them for a year or so, you really can't judge how well the relationship will work or does work. its a different way to play the dating game when you both live together.

the problem with putting 2 mutable signs together: you two lack the same things and can not provide them for each other. you both need a stable person to lean on. someone to look for for strenght and support. neither of you can be that person for each other. therefore you will find yourselves looking for someone outside the relationship for what you need. wether it be you are looking for advice from a family member, or looking for love from a friend, or s*x from a stranger or co-worker, you will find yourselves (both of you) seeking others for what your lover can not provide. of coarse it is all in time.

but yeah, you can keep going and working on this relationship and you can make it last until death do you part. absolutely, but you wont have the same easy flowing and exciting relationship that you would with a compatible sign. it would be a relationship of work and little reward, instead of one of continuous gratification and ease or little effort.