Said another mans name....?

Question

Me and my husband fantasies about having a 3some with a friend of his, I would never do anything with him or anyone else, I love my husband way to much, but a few nights ago my husband said that I said his name while sleeping, (I said "No, Mike my husband will find out") He really didn't say much more he said he is over it and he that he trust me, but I can't seem to let it go I don't remember the dream, but I feel so awful, I feel like I cheated, I feel disgusted and sick, I know that I can't control my dreams, but I have no feeling for this guy or another other guy and I love my husband more than anything in this whole world, I don't what to do to get pass this.

Answer 1

male or female ?

Answer 2

It was a dream sweetie.  Don't beat yourself up over it.  If you can't let it go, then get some counseling for it, but its over.  Is your marriage very secure emotionally and do you have an endless love for each other?  I'm sorry that is happen, but you can't take back the past.  I'm also a believer that we can't control our dreams.  Put it behind you, get into marital counseling, but I'd seriously re-think having a 3-some, especially since it could ruin your marriage.

I still have the dream/fantasy of having a 3-some with 2 women + Me and would love to make that dream come true, but then again, I've never looked at the down side of it.  

Answer 3

Just let it go.  It was just a dream.  Dreams really don't mean anything, and if your hubby is ok then u should be ok.

Answer 4

Relax, it was a dream. It's not big deal.  

Answer 5

My gawd!  It was just a dream!  And it is no wonder you had  a dream involving your husband's friend...You both have fantasies of engaging in 3somes with him......

Answer 6

You and your husband both have talked about having threesome with MIke?  You don't want to but your husband does?  I think your husband is lying.  You didn't say his name in your sleep.. your husband is trying to set you up.

Answer 7

He is testing you so that may be you will agree. Threesomes can ruin a marriage. Beware!!

Answer 8

major uh-uh tell him it was just a dream and there is nothing going on between you guys

Answer 9

haha wow if I was your husband I would feel a little insecure.  what a guy

Answer 10

It was a dream and you talking in your sleep.  Neither of you has any reason to be alarmed.  If your husband is that upset, maybe you both should stop talking about having a threesome.  Obviously he couldn't handle it and just the thought is bothering him.