Scandalous Bachelorette Party Photo of My Wife ?

Question

My wife and one of her friends arranged a Bachelorette Party for one of their girlfriends who was getting married. They had the party at another couple's home whom we are very close friends with.

The Bachelorette party was on a Saturday evening. My wife didn't make it home until after 1am. Sunday morning I ask her how the party went. She told me therr were about 15 girls who showed up and everyone had a good time. I told her I was glad it went well and we never discussed the Bachelorette party again.

Well, earlier this week, my buddy, who is the husband of my wife's girlfriend who hosted the party called me. He said he was snooping through his wife's cell phone and found a photo that was taken at the Bacheloretter party with her cell phone. He said, you need to see this and proceeded to email me the photo from her cellphone. Later in the day I got on my pc and checked my emails and opened the email my buddy sent me.

I looked at the photo and about fell out of my chair. The photo showed a naked male stripper with an enormously huge erect p***s standing in front of a couch with 3 women sitting on it. My wife was in the sitting in the middle and she was leaning forward and had both her hands wrapped around his freakish huge p***s.

I haven't said anything to her. I don't know what I would say. All I know is that I'm mentally devastated. I can't get the image of this guys p***s with my wife's hands around it out of my mind...Plus, I wonder what else happened and my imagination is getting out of control. What seems to really eat at me is just how huge his erect member is compared to mine. My ego hurts and I feel inadequate compared to him. I'm just in my own living h**l. Any suggestions?

Answer 1

send me the pic

Answer 2

Oh h**l man...let it go. As I see here it isn;t the fact that your wife had her dainty little, doll like hands wrapped around this guy's throbbing, rock hard crank. It's that he has a bigger johnson than you could ever hope to have...even in your dreams.

Couldn't have been worse. She could have been pictured with her full, pouting and sumptuous lips wrapped around it instead of her hands.

Know who I'd have a real problem with? My so called 'pal" who sent me the pictures. Think dummy. What do you think he accomplished and gained by that? You think he's doing you any favors sending you that?

So if I were you....and I'm not because unlike you I make a horse look inadequate......then I'd forget about it and just keep hoping what little you possess in the p****r department is enough to keep her happy and content with you.

Hope that eases your mind and makes you feel alittle better stumpy.

Answer 3

Confront her with the pictures and ask her to explain!!!!!  That is disrespectful for her to have done  that to you!  Do not feel insecure....That is why he does what he does,  but in time gravity will take it's toll.....

Answer 4

Calmly ask her about the party and then about the picture.  She crossed the line when she put her hands on him. I would also talk to her friend  and the other attendees to find out what went on.  By the way, don't feel inadequate.

Answer 5

don't feel insecure about physical attributes that you have no control over...he was born with a big one, but so were a lot of p**n stars and other people who have nothing else to offer the world...he's working as a stripper, how low is that?  If he had any brains or ambition, he'd at least be a model or in the x*x movies.

So, your wife touched it.  Really, that's not a 'big' deal...haha, just had to throw that in...lots of bachelor parties have strippers where the woman gives lap dances or sticks her b*****s or butt or p***y in the face of the guys.  Usually as long as it's just that, it shouldn't matter, although she should have been honest with you about it.  Now, if you know that she actually did an HJ on him or a BJ or intercourse, then you have a 'bigger' problem.  Right now, with what you know, your main problem is trust and honesty.  

If it turns out that nothing else happened, then the honesty and trust issue is the only thing to deal with...imagine if you were at a bachelor party and she had a picture of you with a stripper sitting on your lap with your face buried in her b***s?  What if she was insecure about the size of the b***s?  Good Luck in confronting her about this, or doing more of an investigation.

Answer 6

your buddy is an @$$.  he is not your friend.

anyway, just talk to your wife about it.  maybe you'll feel better telling her how you feel about it.

Answer 7

Stripper or not, she has cheated.  

Forward the picture to your divorce lawyer.

Answer 8

confront her

Answer 9

dont make a big deal about it.  ask her without being confrontational so she'll open up.  probably nothing else happened so that was probably the highlight of the night.

Answer 10

Beats the h**l out of me why people celebrate something so sacred with strippers...male or female.....and then make vows to God.

Answer 11

Print the picture out, tape it to the outside of the door that she usually enters when she comes home.  Then wait and let her explain it when she comes through the door.

Talk it out from there.  Let her know the same things you let us know in your question.

Answer 12

confront her...she is married and she should act like a married woman...and the only p***s she should be touching is yours....and don't let your imagination get the best of you. i mean i know it happens but try not to think about it. distract yourself. AND TALK TO HER! And if she denys it show her the pic.

Answer 13

MAN I feel so bad for you.  That is not right of your wife to do and hiding from you she could have told you personally and us men are getting a bad name for always cheating.  Here is what I would do,  I would just ask her about it and if she says no pull out the picture and then comfort her and maybe she will make makeup love to you which is great BTW.  GOOD LUCK.

Answer 14

Lord stop it. This was original thou I gotta give you that. lol

Answer 15

did she come home to you?  well maybe big ones turn her on she was haven fun might  

Answer 16

You need to ***** her *** out.  i would if that was my wife.  cause obviously she was having a heck of a time with this guy and his manhood.  That's bullshit, sorry bro.  That's a tough situation, that image will never leave your head, it wouldn't mine.  Good luck

Answer 17

Go to the strip joint.. find the girl with the biggest rack.. tip her an extra 50 for a picture of you burying your head in it.

Then e-mail it to your wife.  Eye for an eye my friend.

Answer 18

There's a picture of your wife's hands wrapped around another man's p***s, and you're asking us for suggestions???  What more proof do you need, would you like the used condom as well?  Divorce this woman, she cheated on you.  PERIOD.

Answer 19

Maybe you are letting your imagination run to freely. What if nothing besides that happened? It all depends on how she has acted previously, plus what did you think strippers do?

Put yourself in that situation, your at your bachelor's party and this stripper puts her breast all over you, but you did nothing more. Should that be reason enough to start an argument? I suggest if she has behaved previously and you have not reason to doubt her then to just let it go.

Don't compare yourself with a stripper or anyone else. Do the best with what you have and she will love you for that. Good luck.

Good luck.  

Answer 20

Troll

Answer 21

Look, relax.  First of all she is married to you.  She feels secure enough in that fact to have a little fun.  The important part is that she was dressed.  It wasn't  her body everyone was feeling.  That guy was an object, nothing more.  The women were having fun, no different than a bunch of men around a naked female stripper.  The fun is over when you leave the place.  Please do not attach more significance to it than it is due.  You exhibit a stronger ego by saying "So What?"  The fact that you are feeling inadequate has less to do with p***s size and more to do with other factors - you have to ask yourself: "what is it about me that makes me feel insecure?"   The challenge is yours, not your wife's.  good luck.  

Answer 22

Let your ego go and grow up.

Answer 23

What kind of a girl actually touches a strippers dirty p***s?  EWWW!

Don't be sad, but definately say something too her.  Wouldn't she be furious if you were all over some hot stripper?

Answer 24

First, you need to talk to her! Second, don't feel inadequate to the stripper. He's a stripper because he has a huge member. Most women would not enjoy s*x with something as big as you described. Third, if there were other red flags in your relationship then I would consider this one as well.

Hope all goes well!

Answer 25

I am 110% faithful and committed to my husband...if I had a little alcohol in my system I wouldn't put it past me to do the same thing.  I don't think it is a big deal, although I understand how devastated you must be.  It is a much bigger deal to you than it is to your wife.  Most women I know don't care about p***s size.  I highly doubt your wife even considered doing any more than what she did in the pic.  She probably didn't tell you because it meant absolutely nothing to her.  Sure I would be ticked if my hubby grabbed someone's b***s.  Do NOT feel inferior...you are not and she does not care that you are not as big as he is.  I would confront her and show her the pic.  Tell her you are hurt and embarrassed that your buddy knows and told you.  Tell her it makes it look like she doesn't respect you and ask her to use better judgement next time.  But I assure you...it is no big deal!

Answer 26

First of all your wife must have been honest and told u abt this party and this male stripper which is verycommom in such bacherlor parties. secondly after someone telling you , ur ego got hurt, becos of the huge size, the stripper is a professional and u a normal human being why that must hurt you. The mistake lies with ur wife for not telling and then ur buddy who has snopped and back biting .  

Answer 27

How's your s*x life? If you and your wife have a good s*x life, then you don't have anything to worry about, because she's obviously satisfied - and if size was that important to her anyway, she probably wouldn't have married you.

If the s*x is not so good, try some new things, or try solving the deeper relationship issues that lead to not-good s*x. Couples therapy can help.

Either way, your buddy is a jerk for causing a rift between you and your wife - especially since he did it on purpose. He knew showing you that picture would cause problems. Get a new friend, and don't visit the insecurity about your p***s on your wife. Lots of people have done stuff they would otherwise be mortified by when alcohol is involved, perhaps even you. Just let it go.  

Answer 28

I'm normally not very devious but - if you confront her it will get defensive and ugly.  I doubt you'll ever know the truth and it will be in your mind forever.

So, I would create an E-mail account on Yahoo or whatever and E-mail her the pic and ask her "What would your husband think if he saw this and what happened next?".

See what she does.  I would expect if she goes crazy it would signify that she feels pretty guilty about what happened.  If she replies that nothing happened next then I wouldn't worry about it.

Answer 29

At first, I was going to say that you men snooping around behind your girls' back is no excuse. But a picture actually showing your girl feeling on another man's pen!s is completely unacceptable. I think you need to talk to your wife about it. Even though she was only there to "have fun" and "have a good time", there are limits when you're married. And she crossed that limit. Have a good talk with her. I'm sure she doesn't go out a lot, and doesn't do this very often.

Answer 30

Show her the picture

Answer 31

Well I thnk you have a right to be upset, but don't overreact.  Talk to her about it and tell her your dissappointed.  I'm sure nothing happened.  It's a bachelor party!! Although she went to far by touching the stripper, don't forget she came home to you.